I’m so heated at my boyfriend right now?

[Cass510]

My boyfriend of 4 years was texting one his friends who recently got divorced from his bestfriend. (They all been good pals for years) so I seen she texted him asking about a concert they went to way back in high school. She asked if he was there he said yes and told her the memory he remembes of that event of half naked girls dancing on stage and that one their friends (a girl) joked if he got a chub and he said a little bit with a dead face emoji. I’m so heated but at the same time it’s like why are you saying this that’s disrespectful and yeah I don't know opinions?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dam, I'd be mad too if I saw that. Talking to another girl about getting a boner at a past concert, like come on man have some respect! You've been together for 4 years, he should know better. Even if it was just some random memory from high school, no need to share those kinda details. And the dead face emoji just makes it worse like he's tryna be all casual about it.

I'd be feeling some type of way for sure. I'd probably confront him about it like "what the hell man, why you telling her that?" See what he says. Hopefully he realizes it was a dumb thing to bring up and apologizes. If it were me I don't know if I could trust him as easy after that. People make mistakes but intent matters too you know? Make sure to stand up for yourself and don't let him try and downplay it. You got a right to be heated! Just try stay calm when you talk so you can really hear what he has to say for himself. Hopefully he realizes where you're coming from.

[abc3643]

If this is your worst problem in life, consider yourself the luckiest person in the 100+ billion person, 2+ million year history of the genus Homo (Humans...)

[Avicenna]

I think you're overreacting

[spartan55]

Talk about making an issue out of nothing. You sound like a pain in the ass.