Dating two women, when and how should I choose?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, thanks to a number of events, I ended up connecting with and dating two wonderful women.

Now, it's casual dating and they both know I am seeing other people (I assume they do the same), so there's no lie and no deception, but my father says I eventually have to make a choice and that the "carousel" won't last forever. Things are pretty good now but I wonder whom and how should I choose when I go into an exclusive relationship?

Girl A is younger than me (I am 27, she is 22) and as such is somewhat submissive and wants me to take initiative, but has strong opinions too and doesn't compromise on them (which I like tbh).

Girl B is older (29), used to be a cop before taking a private desk job, is no bullshit type and a bit bossy, but she helped me a lot and I too helped her out a lot.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, choosing between two cool chicks is never easy! Both those girls sound sweet.

I'd say keep doing your thing for now since you said it's still casual. But your pops is right that you'll have to pick eventually. When you feel yourself catching real feelings for one over the other, that's probably a sign.

For me, age alone wouldn't be a deciding factor. It's more about your lifestyles and goals matching up long term.

Girl A being a little less independent could get annoying as you get older. But her personality may suit you better.

Girl B's cop past shows she's ambitious and no-nonsense. Helping each other out is also a good sign you make a good team.

Maybe spend some solo time imagining a future with each. See which scenario feels more "right" when you picture the long haul.

Your gut will tell you bro. Just be real with them both when the time comes to choose so no one gets hurt. You got this man! b

[Sofargone93]

I'd go with Ms officer. You want a woman who has been through things and life and has grown. Her no B's mentality comes from her being a female cop. Women have it rough in a men's environment. I can see why you're attracted. She's not stupid and can hold her own.

As for the younger female who stands on her opinions... She's in her early 20s and don't know shit. She has to grow some more. We all had to grow some more at that age. ... But shit... Grass ain't always greener. Women with experience will fight... Younger women still think of having a happy family. I'd go with Xena lol.

[FunkyMonkee]

Nothing wrong with that. That's what dating is for.