What should I do in this case?

[Anonymous]

So I match with this man on a tinder. I DM him and he gave me his IG. So we talked there. This man is super attractive and his IG have so many followers but his following so low. We talked and he keep asking me if I wanted to see him he'll pick me up.(at night ) But I want a real date. After a few weeks we texted and we meet at the coffee and talked for awhile. He's super hot and we get along. He's seem like a gentleman, funny, he's always be sarcastic with me. He paid for the meal and we walked around and having fun talking. But he's asking me if I wanna go for swimming at his place since we get along. I told him I haven't prepare for it but he tried to convinced me but I still rejected so he's just stopped asking me. Then he walked me to my bike and finally we kissed goodbye. After the date he text me "it's chill"
Tomorrow he texted me again asking if I wanted to swim at his place. I wanted to go but I've just met him and I'm feeling like it's not safe. What should I do to get to know this man better?

[Surely]

If your gut is telling you that something just isn’t right. There is something that has your spider senses on alert!

[bededazzle]

if he seems like a gentleman, why does he repeatedly ask you to swim at his place when you said no?

[Asker]

I guess maybe my rejection is kinda hesitation. I'm not saying entirely no, I said I'm not ready and not prepared for it. I guess he knows that I wanted to go but I tried not to be easy.

[bededazzle]

oh i see. we’ll just propose a different kind of date then

[Anonymous]

Tinder, IG, you are already failing here. Grow up.

[Asker]

Isn't dating app using to meet new people, getting to know them? It's make our life easier to meet new people. Also on his profile he's state d looking for long term partner as well.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You're pushing 30?

[Asker]

Yes, I do