Girls, how do you feel about a guy who hasn't been in a relationship for more then 5 years?

[glennos89]

Not in a relationship for more then 5 years while also not having any sexual oriented contact with anyone during that period.

Please explain in the comments why you feel that way

I would prefer a guy like that ( Explain in comments please )

I wouldn't want to be with a guy like that ( Explain in comments please )

Not sure I have my doubts about guys like that ( Explain in comments please )

Other opinion... ( Explain in comments please )

[PetLover24]

Depends on the reason.

As a successful intelligent educated woman, I've only been with 3 guys in my life.

All of them went long stretches with little sexual activity. There's nothing "wrong" with them. They just put more effort into education, job success, careers, etc - and each of them are well achieved - than their peers who were more interested in pursuing the average easy as a prostitute for sex American slut than getting anywhere in life.

[PetLover24]

My age is actually 36, I've asked the mods to fix it.

[shiran_]

I think it really depends on who the individual is. To me it would be more important to know that it is something that he is looking for right now in his life, as could be that he was not ready for such a thing. I much rather be with someone like that than someone who had tons of failed relationships

[glennos89]

I can totally relate to that 💯

[7Phoenix7]

I wouldn't mind that at all. I would be interested in knowing the reason.

[sage2021]

@7Phoenix7
There are a couple of reasons that I can think of.
He respects women too much to use her. So no sex there.
There are people who are A sexual, meaning they aren't sexually active with either and might not be sexual at all because they just don't get horny. They can live without it.
He might have injured that part. He's shy?

[7Phoenix7]

@sage2021 yep, or he's suffering low self-esteem, depression, waiting for a serious relationship that leads to marriage, religion..

[glennos89]

@7Phoenix7 My "part" isn't injured it's working fine 😂 I choose not to have sex with just anyone. I rather have meaningfull sex with someone that I care about and love. That's all 🤷‍♂️

[7Phoenix7]

That's a beautiful thing 👍

[glennos89]

Thanks ☺️

[rachel776b]

it's fine as long as you've had relationships

[glennos89]

Thanks for your opinion. Ofcourse I had relationships before the longest being 6 years. I'm just not willing to have sex with every girl out there. I guess I'm different then most men probably when it comes to this subject 😅

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't mind. At least as long as the reason isn't terminal illness or severe mental illness. Then I probably would reconsider.

[glennos89]

Hahaha I don't think I have any illnesses 😂😂😂

[Monalisa77]

Never been with anyone so I've no need to judge and would probably prefer someone who doesn't run off with a different girl every week

[glennos89]

I'm very loyal in my relationships because I hate cheating

[Sasha0426]

5 years isn’t that bad compared to never being in one your whole life. Which is my situation.

[glennos89]

From a guys point of view it ain't going to be better then that. Every guy prefers a virgin woman to be in a relationship with so don't see it as something negative! Although I understand you might crave having one probably 😊

[Nikki1989]

I would assume he has no social life.

[glennos89]

I actually do have a social life😂I got options as well... It's 2023... Woman spread their legs for just about anyone these days so that isn't the problem either. I just choose not go in🤷‍♂️

[WhitneySnow]

Wouldn’t influence my opinion about him one way or the other

[Minahh]

How do I feel about it? If he's been working on improving himself on all levels. And became a kinder person. That woo. Amazing. And I'm cheering for him.

[glennos89]

Thanks. I do try to learn from my mistakes and become a better partner in my next relationship

[elizamichale1]

Who is he? A monk?

[glennos89]

Something like that yeah..😂 Maybe I'm a monk or maybe I'm just waiting for the right person to come along to have sex with instead of having sex with every girl that is willing to spread her legs for me 🤔

[elizamichale1]

Any girl u will hav sex with will be spreading her legs for u honey

[aiste_342]

Eliza i guess he wants to spread your legs

[elizamichale1]

@aiste_342 hehe well he can wish all he wants lol

[glennos89]

@aistse_342 Maybe I wanne spread yours? 🤔

[aiste_342]

Lol why mines😂

[glennos89]

Because you look 🔥☺️

[aiste_342]

Eliza would give you chance

[elizamichale1]

@aiste_342 lol why would i give him a chance n not u huhh

[aiste_342]

I feel you can give him more pleasure as compare to me haha

[elizamichale1]

@aiste_342 hehe well i can but how did u know tht

[glennos89]

Only 1 way to find out who gives more pleasure right? 😏😂

[elizamichale1]

Lol😋😋

[wiltingrosepetal]

Since he was 13? I can deal with that

[glennos89]

No I'm way beyond your age haha. I only sleep with woman I have a relationship with but I'm picky... Maybe to picky 😅