Do all women have the same sexual market value?

Question

I often hear some people say men have to be tall, handsome, confident etc for dating women. And that men date what they can get?

So they claim some men are attractive, others are not. It follows that there is such a thing as top tier minority of men. Doesn't this apply to women too?

Are all women equally attractive?

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

lol I love those theories :D But please don't rate people, don't add them labels... it's degrading...

Let's start from the beginning. We have our needs, which are secured the best by the romantic relationship. So we feel kind of driven to find this special person and create the relationship.

Then comes subconsciousness. It makes a first evaluation of potential partners for us. Every human being has its own criteria, but some are common. We look for healthy partners who can help us raise healthy offspring. Shiny hair, healthy skin, and proper body ratio are among the most important factors.

Then comes our consciousness. And we make secondary choices, sometimes totally opposite to the primary ones, because we are intelligent. Modern medicine and adoptions solve the problem of partner who can't have children on their own. So we look for someone more close to us, someone who shares our ideas, matches our expectations and gives us the chance of a long and fulfilling relationship.

People are different, and each of us has different standards defining attractiveness. So even if I'm not attractive to some men, there are still others who like insolent, scrawny redheads :D

But if you look closer. We have our types, but whether we end in a relationship with our type is determined by a myriad of factors. One of them is physical chemistry (smell is a very strong factor). Another attraction to the mind. Another sexual compatibility. and so on...

So my ex, who loved thin blondes, ended with a more curvy (at that time) redhead. Shit happens :D

rachel776 · Accepted Answer

manifestly not

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

"I often hear some people say. . ." What you hear is the people who talk about relationships instead of actually having relationships, and what they are offering is usually excuses or justifications for their own failures that take the focus off of themselves.

Go to the mall, have a seat in a main corridor, and watch all of the couples who stroll by. Do they all look like Hollywood actors and actresses? Of course not. Normal people find partners and settle into long term relationships every day.

Now, not all women are equally attractive to me. I have my preferences and I have an "ideal type," but I don't think I have ever actually dated a woman who perfectly matched my ideal type. I have dated some women and developed an attraction as I became more familiar with them. But there are some physical traits that are a strong turn off for me, such as heavy thighs, big butts, and humongous boobs.

However, other guys find those same qualities very desirable, and they would be turned off by the petite girl with 32A boobs that I find attractive.

Now, I have a question for you. Can you give me driving directions to this "sexual market?" I've never been there but would love to at least visit it once! :) :) :)

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

What most women fail to understand is this. Their sexual market value in dating, is never where they place it themselves.

It's never as low or as high as they think it is or should be.

Men on the other hand, just put more value in general on sex. And if your not interested in that... then your market value is incredibly lower then you think.

And trust me, any man willing to climb the highest of heights to reach the level you have placed your market value at... is a man you don't want anyway.

Avicenna · Answer

All women are obviously nowhere close to being equally attractive. But it's false to equate sexual pleasure with looks. You can have great sex with women you don't find particularly attractive. In fact, I had great sex with the heaviest and least attractive women I ever had sex with.

Darklydarkened · Answer

First of all, human relationships, can't be commodified.

It's tough for American mindset to get this but ''dating market, sexual market'' sort of terms are disgustingly dehumanising.

Secondly, there's Polina Malinovskaya and a random woman

Asking whether they're 'equally attractive'' is just complete obliviousness

Do all women have the same sexual market value?

Anonymous · Answer

Your first mistake was taking advice from the psychotic red pill ideology seriously.

"sexual marketplace value," lol.

The people who say stuff like this are usually insecure about their sexuality.

Like the guy on Fresh and Fit who is secretly gay, the Fresh and Fit guy promotes the red pill stuff you're talking about. The red pill is primarily for people who are insecure about their sexuality.

He talks about women and sexual marketplace value, and he is secretly gay.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/3AjCGf0YvwY

sawno · Answer

No of course not, there will be women who are sexually unattractive and those women will have a hard time getting a partner. If you plainly turn men off in advance they will not be interested in having a sexually exclusive relationship with you.

Simple case, imagine an obese women. How many men are actively going to want to have sex with her compared to the pretty girl next door?

aceleon · Answer

no. looks, body, sexual past (or lack thereof) how feminine she is, and other similiar things add or decreases value.

do you think a chick with a body of a porn star and the looks of a goddess has the same value with a obese girl with the looks of only a mother could love?

Yannae · Answer

My short answer is that it starts out that way, and changes into a no over time. What I mean by that is that we make choices in our lives that make ourselves less or more desirable to the other sex.

When we talk about looks. I for example prefer a taller woman. Does that raise my attraction towards her? Yes. Is it going to make a big difference? No. A shorter girl can also still be really attractive. That's just basic looks. Genes.

Hygiene. Dressing. Can alter that attraction too. Ever run into a person who doesn't know that showers or baths exist? That value goes down to the bottom. How they want to world to see them. Instagram provocative pictures, attention seeking, onlyfans. No thanks. Not really attracted to that kind of woman.

There is probably going to be a girl out there who'll read this opinion of mine and will not agree with this at all, dislike me for it and my value to her will go down, right?

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Leftover men will compromise with leftover women.

''Market value'' is perhaps the wrong term.

You see: In economy, many people will settle for ''Made in China'' although they know that it's crap. But it's cheap to get.

Logic now tells me that the cheaper a woman is, the higher her request rate becomes - and thus her ''value''.

genericname85 · Answer

obviously no. there's a lot of things that can make a have woman more or less sexual market value.

a lot of the thing are not allowed to be pointed out anymore, cause it's considered politically incorrect but that doesn't mean it's not a thing.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Whoever said yes is a liar or in denial. The 70-year-old land whale has lower sex appeal than the 25-year-old fitness model.

bolverk · Answer

OK Going from your rephrasing of the question "Do all women have equal advantages and traits as sexual and romantic partners?" the answer would still be 'NO', every one of them is an individual hence they will not have the same advantages and traits as sexual/romantic partners, just as women look at men and judge them in the same way.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

All women are not equal. There is a scale of 1 to 10 that we use for women all the time.

There are clear differences.

Now on the other hand... there is a world beyond the physical that can make a 10/10 look like a 4 out of 10 pretty quick. That scale I speak of can change when dealing with more than what just meets the eye.

Lliam · Answer

Of course not. Some women are prettier and sexier than others. That doesn't mean that different guys don't have different preferences. And it doesn't account for a woman's personality. But the fact remains that beautiful women can attract more guys.
And if a physically attractive woman is also orgasmic and sexually skilled, her "sexual" market value is increased.

Berethor · Answer

Pussy is pussy? but I don't think so, some women are clearly better than others.

HawkPerception · Answer

Most definitely not. There's a reason why models get the most attention from many men. Because they have the physical attributes that bring about raw lust in men. Regardless of their personality they will always hold that physical attraction value. Ugly girls and obese girls that refuse to workout are not going to get much attention. It's something that's within their power to change, but many just choose not to. Half of physical attraction comes from being fit

RingOfFire · Answer

"Attractiveness" is a consensus not an absolute. Some people are more widely attractive to a larger percentage of other people but no one is attractive to everyone.

So when you ask the question, are all women equally attractive, the answer is "To whom?" Are all women equally attractive to the same percentage of men? Clearly the answer is no just as not all men are equally attractive to the same percentage of women.

I think that answer is obvious, isn't it?

Kayokenx3 · Answer

All men and women are not equally attractive or handsome for various reasons. For both genders based on appearance and body figure what you see on the outside isn't always what you get on the inside since people facade themselves to impress others around them to uplift their image.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Rating someone or putting a market value on them is degrading. We are not pieces of meat.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Nah, most women have some sort of "SMV" but some more than others depending on multiple factors..

Anonymous · Answer

No, not at all. For example, an OF person, or a sex worker will find it much more difficult to find good men.. Same with single mother's, and women with high body counts.

Anonymous · Answer

No. But the things that devalue a woman are usually under their control (they just lack the will to address them) whereas the things that devalue a man in the average woman's eyes, are things beyond his control.

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