Why isn’t there anyone out there for me?

[Anonymous]

I’m not bad looking too. And I will treat them so well too. I just feel like meeting woman after woman, I can’t find someone who feels the same way I do. If they somewhat like me, it’s like I have a bad curse, and they just don’t feel the same anymore. And I refuse to date someone like that. I want someone to trust me, and let me show them that I’m more than what they think of me. It’s like I’m just searching and searching with no results. Feels like I’m just alone in this universe. And that’s how it’s meant to be.

[Anonymous]

If you're an avg. guy only about 10% of women are going to be interested in you. That means if you are interested in 50% of women, for every 5 women you're interested in, you're lucky if 1 of them is interested in you. And with women's fickleness that is subject to change with the breeze.

In short man, you can't force the issue. It doesn't matter how much you like if she don't feel the same no amount of fawning over her will change that. Oh she might enjoy it, she'll probably even give you positive feedback and smile. But when you're done she'll still tell you "not interested". So it's up to you determine what women are worth your effort and what women are just dry holes you're drilling. The other option is is to learn to be unphased by rejection and just hit on every woman you like and not give 2💩's about her reactions or judgements. That's how some guys play it.

[PvR89]

Stop looking for someone and first be happy with yourself. It is not as easy as it sounds but if you are content with yourself you will meet someone.

[Luméa]

I think you should change your mindset

[Asker]

What do I change it to? Because I’ve been single for years. And I don’t want to settle for a woman who’s not as into me. What’s the point of impressing someone who doesn’t like you at first.

[Luméa]

What I meant to say was that you should change the negative thoughts about yourself, if something doesn't happens, there is something good in it.

[Asker]

I have been doing that. I’m just tired of it always happening

[Luméa]

Did you meet these women online?

[Asker]

In person and online. But yet again, I’m not on any dating apps

[Luméa]

It is normal for this to happen with women you meet on the internet because we cannot know a person 100% on the internet, Maybe it's not time yet, I believe that God will find you a suitable woman who thinks like you, I think you should believe that too.

[Asker]

I said it happens in person too. Like going out. And meeting different women. And I don’t know about that. It’s been years, and still no one

[Luméa]

You said they don't think same with u, what do they think, how they think? Can you give some examples?

[Asker]

Like I met crazy women, girls who think bad thoughts about me without even knowing who I am, narcissistic women, women who view as a number, women who proceed to text other guys in front of me (like what’s the point if they don’t even think you’re special enough to only be talking to me), women who think I’m player when in reality they’re the only one I’m talking to. And just things like that

[Luméa]

Okay, these are not your fault , you have come across low quality people and there are many women and good women in this world.

Look on the bright side, it's a good thing they showed you their true colors, what if they had pretended like they are good and u will be in relationship one of them who doesn't even love u.

[Asker]

I’m really good at seeing people for who they are. I do that all the time in my job. Because you can’t trust someone with bad qualities, so I always looked out for that. And still, it sucks when even douches I know who loyal girlfriends that love them when I can’t even meet someone who’s worth it

[Asker]

Who have*