Hey all, I really loved my ex boyfriend, we were in a 4 years long wonderful, trusting and loving relationship, which was also quite difficult cause it was long distance. We met constantly, but then we got financial and life difficulties, so decided to break up. It took me 3 months to accept it and move on. Now i lightly started dating while traveling. I met 3 guys, but the last one really clicked. We both did not have an intention to pursue a relationship. We had 3 dates in 2 days, had lots of fun, did so many crazy things, he carried me on a princess carry even in his arms... And then we kissed. Actually after the kiss, we made ourlt for 2-3 hours in the back of his car. He told about me to his family. Added a photo of us on social media. Walked me with his dog. It felt so good, but I'm sooo scared. Now we call every day, and we want to meet next month again, he joins me in my trip. We both made sure it's slow, without expectations, and he says - let's meet and see where it goes... I'm up to it. He's extremely attractive to me and sweet. But the only thing is the long distance trauma I feel and also, the fact that I had a big break up and still recovering... I never had this. What would he your advice - how should I slow down, enjoy the new romance and not jump into deeper stuff? I need something sweet, fun and casual, but everything we do with this new guy hits me deeply and I'm scared of falling in love again, at least for the next 6 months.
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5 months after a breakup, I met a new guy but scared of falling in love again and need to take it slow. Help?
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So what if you get hurt again? Just suck it up and keep trying. You gonna lock yourself inside and bubble wrap yourself for the rest of your days cause you’re, “scared of getting hurt”?
Guess I should not really care that much, yeah. Just follow the flow. But my flow is deeper connections and my better judgment tells me to not rush into new relationship so soon.
4 years relationship ended and you are quick to meet new lad, no wonder the last relationship didn't end well.
Too many 304s these days.
I said I had no intentions of starting a new relationship. Just meeting new people in a new country. And it developed into this, and I'm laid back. Where did you read about me being quick and rushing on stuff? We meet people constantly, but developing romance just happens. I'm trying to make smart decisions and that's why I asked this question
So you got out of a long distance relationship and now you want to get into another one? Find a guy close to home you can actually see in a regular basis