Attractive black woman?

[Anonymous]

I am a younger white guy attracted to black women. I've been looking around for the last few weeks. To find an attractive black girl to date. Most of the black girls I talk to aren't interested in white men Or they Have the ghetto attitude. Are black woman just not interested in white men?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah man, you might want to rethink some of that wording. Not cool to generalize groups of people or judge them by their race.

Any woman, no matter her background, has the right to be attracted to whoever she wants without being labeled. And anyone can come from any type of environment.

Instead of assuming it's because "black women aren't interested in white men," look at how you're coming across individually. Are you respectful in your messages? Do you take time to get to know their unique personalities and interests beyond just physical attraction?

Keep an open and learning mindset. We all have unconscious biases to work on. Focus on respecting each person as an individual first. Have conversations, share about yourself, let things develop naturally without expectations.

You'll connect much better that way versus labeling or only seeing people through the lens of their appearance or race. Just some things to think on - good luck out there!

[SotiCoto]

Putting aside the racist choice of language...
... this might answer your question:

[Anonymous]

Yes, some black women do like white men, but from my experience they present themselves as such. Generally, black women do not like white men. In general, they do not. But the ones that do present themselves a specific way. I see a lot of white men with black women these days, look at how the girl presents herself and the spaces she’s in. Also, if you think any black woman with a bad attitude is “ghetto” maybe you need to just stick to your own kind. Youd probably say discriminatory things about their hair or upbringing too if you have this mindset. Sounds like you’re fetishizing.

[Pohjolan]

"But the ones that do present themselves a specific way."
That is very unspecific.

[Opinion Owner]

@Pohjolan It’s unspecific because I am not a black woman obviously, go figure it out for yourself if you want specifics.

[Pohjolan]

What about that experience of yours?

[Opinion Owner]

@Pohjolan Once again, im not a black woman and since you wrote a passive aggressive response on my comment, im not assisting you in any way, cheers.

[Pohjolan]

Nah that's just your projection.

[Opinion Owner]

@Pohjolan Lol!!!

[Opinion Owner]

@Pohjolan Anyways, you’re blocked Angry Bird. Figure it out on your own.

[Shapay10]

Most black girls I know would date a white guy probably just not one that throws around microaggressions like “ghetto” . Maybe you don’t deserve them. Date a race you respect maybe

[handsomelad70]

Some black women like white men (my sister's and niece's husband were white) but most don't, just as lots of white women don't like even us handsome Bradys. There are fewer black women/white man couples, likely due to black women's history of being forced to have babies with their masters during slavery, but these narratives are fading. Trouble is, four-fifths of black women are overweight or obese, and many have HORRIBLE attitudes, so get a hot, bosomy black babe, laddie.

[litty736]

The number of bw dating wm vice versa is growing. You find these couples in major cities

[Malwi93]

u can date me lol

[Jmmmfi4]

YOU'RE GROSS