Am I too ugly to get a boyfriend?

Question

Just wondering because I am single and feel lonely and sad I feel insecure sometimes

AJR78 · Accepted Answer

When a female says she thinks she is ugly, I rarely believe it. At least in the context of whether or not she can get a date or a boyfriend if she really wanted one. It's easier for women. Even those who may be aesthetically challenged in our ultra competitive world. You have no idea what it's like to actually be ugly, I promise you. I am going to be 46 next month and haven't had a girlfriend since I was 27. It is most likely I will never be in a relationship again and although I feel I am built for and strong enough for a life of solitude, it isn't easy at all. You're fairly attractive at least, if not very pretty in the eyes of some. If you want a date or a boyfriend, all you have to do is give some guy a chance. Your social life compared to mine is like playing the video game on easy compared to ultra hard.

KrakenAttackin · Accepted Answer

No, you are not ugly. Perhaps you are chasing the wrong men.

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

If your profile picture is actually you, then I'd say you're not ugly. But I understand the loneliness and wanting someone to sweep you off your feet into love, romance, and beyond. I'll be 25 this year and I'll still be single... and then the years after that I'll still be single. LOL

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

Ugly? Not at all.

You’re pretty. You’ve got vibrant, lively eyes, nice face shape and beautiful lips.

My suggestion would be to try ponytail. And little side bangs.

You’d rock them.

I always thought I was not good looking, men seem to feel the different way…

Drew-1990 · Answer

If that profile is you then no, you are not ugly, you are cute. So many different reasons that it could be that are sad for both sides. You have shy or scared guys, you have picky guys that think they deserve a 9 or 10 and you got what modern society has done guys dealing like they will upset you by dare asking you out. Many more I can't list. But believe me you are NOT alone. I'm 33 and still single I have had the "what is wrong with me" thoughts before

IslaTheWitch · Answer

maybe you are too impatient, insecure, or not enough confident, or perhaps you don't love yourself enough...

Behind being single, appearance takes the last place. It's mostly personality or deficits thingy. Take a critical look at your personality and insecurities and work on parts which in your opinion should change.

And sometimes... it's just that you want too much. And when you relax it comes naturally.

brainwashed_sheep · Answer

If you're feeling self-conscious about your looks, why not adopt some adorable sheep characteristics? A nice, fluffy wooly face might do the trick! You could also try growing some lovely curved horns - they're a real conversation starter! And don't forget to add a touch of sheepish charm with your adorable bleating voice. Who wouldn't want to date someone with such bovine features? Remember, the right person will appreciate that you conform to societal definitions of beauty! 🐏😍😜

BlissfullyCurSed · Answer

I have got a feeling that you are living in a small town.

tzdc21 · Answer

I'm assuming your profile pic is you. No you're not ugly at all. What I would be more concerned about is your attitude. Because beauty means nothing without character. If you have excellent character, you're in a great spot. If you don't... well... it doesn't look good for you.

Goofy9009 · Answer

No , your datable in my mind, you’re beautiful !! You will find the right guy at some point in your life!

JHAYES317 · Answer

You are not really that pretty tbh…but not repulsive either, I’m sure there are plenty of guys out there with similar looks who would date you…just may have to lower your standards a bit to mainly average and below average looking guys instead of above average

Fireguy17 · Answer

there is someone out there for everyone.
You just haven't met them yet.
You may need to change where you are looking.
Find someplace where people that have similar interests as you have hang out, that would be a good start.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

You ain't ugly, don't feel sad, you will find the right person in the right time miss lauren

D4nielv · Answer

Hey, just replying here because your last post got removed and I couldn't reply to you there! But yes, totally. You have plenty to show off and you shouldn't be afraid to do so 😘

ComteDeSaintGermain · Answer

You're not a man. It should be easy to get a boyfriend as a woman, especially at your age. So, no, I think it's more like a mindset issue or a mental problem. Or you are actively choosing not to date men because they are not the men you want.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Absolutely not, no. You’ll meet a great guy someday. And he will be the luckiest guy out there because most other women aren’t as sweet as you are. I wouldn’t rush things with anyone though. When God says it’s the right time it will happen.

Apple1996 · Answer

Nope If that's you in the pfp then you are cute. Dating is just hard right now so don't blame your looks.

OtterMan68 · Answer

if your feelings of inadequacy make you shy and uncomfortable around people, they'll pick up on it, and may not be interested.

stratford · Answer

If anyone ever tells you that you're ugly, they are clearly jealous of your beauty

elaphe · Answer

I think you are pretty, especially your eyes and lips.

Jennz6 · Answer

You’re not ugly you’re beautiful 💕💯

Wiredone · Answer

No you're not ugly. You're not alone. A lot of women are having trouble getting a boyfriend.

boobliker · Answer

I would like to have played with you and all the things that make a couple

Yyyyu · Answer

Nah. Maybe you are introvert. So you don't interact with many people. Download dating app.

NewUser22 · Answer

Don’t feel that way. Bad road to go down. Definitely not ugly.

AngryCarl · Answer

"Too ugly to get a boyfriend" isn't a thing as far as I know.

Adogdog · Answer

No way. You are really attractive.

Mettbltt · Answer

you are not uglyy

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, you are very pretty.

soe11 · Answer

Be positive and optimistic dear

laly520 · Answer

not ugly u look pretty

MysticDevice · Answer

I'm not havin much luck either

Iron_Man · Answer

no….

jahaims · Answer

You just have to settle for another ugo

BarryLiverstone · Answer

I don’t feel any attraction but maybe others do

Yannae · Answer

Not at all. Would date.

Pohjolan · Answer

So what have you actually done to get one?

dudeinohio · Answer

No way... you. look. real. pretty

shortster · Answer

Not at all. You look cute.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

U are not at all ugly

guyinterested · Answer

your picture is quite pretty

Saamee · Answer

We can chat.🤗

Con29 · Answer

No your beautiful

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

You aren't ugly

Kykiono1 · Answer

Not at all

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