I am not his first kiss?

[Anonymous]

I would not be his first kiss and I know its kinda immature of me but help me get over it please.

I talked to him about this and he said it wasn't that special cause that girl cheated on him and he said he would make sure that he would make me feel like the most special girl when he kisses me

[Anonymous]

First kisses can be BAD. My first kiss was forced upon me by two girls whilst a bunch of male bullies restrained me (because they found it funny to do that). I guess I was lucky thats all they did. It's more than enough to discount it.

So, the "first" part of kidding isn't the important part It's the first kiss the person holds up as special that and that matters to them. Even assuming its his first special kiss and your not his first, he should make it feel like its the MOST special kiss and the one he cares for as well as making you feel safe and comfortable that its not unimportant such that you just become another number.

Also important, if its YOUR first kiss, make sure all the areas which you need to be happy are in place. Meaning, don't rush, find yourself. Anyone loving you will help you slowly find the best kiss ever.

Good luck.

[Berethor]

I care more about if a girl is virgin, but I prefer if she don't kissed anyone else as well.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Sacred_First_Kiss

[BarryLiverstone]

Get over it. You can’t change the past. If you really want special then make new memories

[Asker]

yes yes I understand that but help me how can I get over it pls

[BarryLiverstone]

You get over it by kissing, then kissing again. Then building a healthy relationship where the memories dwarf any notion of a first kiss

[Asker]

okay thanks a lot

[BarryLiverstone]

Also realize most people don’t marry their first kiss.

What’s more important to you? A good life with someone you love or a magic first kiss?

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome

[noohair]

Immature? Yes. Reality can suck but that is where we all live.

[laly520]

past can't be changed