My guy friend 26, agreed for me to be his first kiss? Why would he do that?

[Paulalove98]

The other day we went to the fair and had a great time, although it's unsure if we will end up dating due to him trying to figure things out still, we ended up having a fantastic time still and he is aware i have a litte crush on him but doesn't make him feel uncomfortable whatsoever. (Keep in mind, he's never had a girlfriend) but he's not an ugly guy to me at all or unattractive. He just wasn't looking when he was younger. Anyhow, we ended up sharing a kiss and i kind of went heavy on it cause I've always wanted to do it. Do you think he let me kiss him because he felt comfortable with me and may like me too?

[wingattebaby16]

he likes you, girl!

he sounds like the kind of guy you have to take Charge with.

I have dated several guys like this. They are slow or not at all to kiss me, hold hands, etc.

So, i have found me being the aggressor, i get the guy!

Best is with 4 guys, we went to the Drive Inn movie theater, were alone in his car, and i kissed him. They all were uncomfortable, but i just kept kissing and touching and i was bad with all 4.

After finally getting them to kiss me back, i would caress their chest, arms, legs, and ended up lightly teasing and touching their cocks through their shorts. Everyone of them had an orgasm in their pants and i kept rubbing firmly until all their yummy pudding came out. They were ashamed for cumming in their pants, but that was an excuse to get them off and have more fun.

Whether it was i stroked them again to orgasm or if i was lucky, sucked them dry.

soon after, the next date at the drive inn, no qualms about kissing and making out, and 3 of the 4 encouraged me to give them a bj and later we fucked in the front seat.

if i had not taken charge, i would be still lucky to be Holding Hands and a quick kiss on the cheek at the end of the night.

[Summeroflove]

I would say so too. I mean if he absolutely refuses to date you. Then you have pretty much left the ball in his court and you have done your part.

That or you can see. If he would like to hang out another time. But all in all. If you begin loosing interest in him and liking someone else. Then maybe it’s just time to start moving on at that point.

You can say. You tried. You had a great time with him. But he doesn’t seem interested in taking things further.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Listen, if a guy in his mid 20s hasn't had a girlfriend yet its not necessarily HIS fault, society and dating are awful nowadays, and if you're shy and picky as a guy you might end up lonely.

I see it that way that he likes you, dont be insecure about it and take the chance

[Paulalove98]

To be honest. I've never found it to be a turn off even when i first met him i was just a little shook because like i said he's a really cute guy and very sweet and caring toward people. I also made the first move and approached him and we've been friends for a year now hung out a few times when we're not busy but that is so true that is why we had some open honest conversations but same time i suppose not rushing things too fast.

[Paulalove98]

I like him for who he is, i don't care that he's never had any experience i just feel like maybe this is all new to him and he is still processing it but i am a patient person and enjoy his company

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Its in my opinion always great when being friends and then getting in a relationship, so you get to know each other better and the bonding goes deeper

[Fromdusktilldawn]

It doesn't have to be a fully stictly comitted relationship. The term relationship also scares some people. But honestly if you both dont live together its just simply two people that are good friends that also have sex.

[Paulalove98]

@Fromdusktilldawn he also said he feels comfortable around me and I feel the same way. I think finding that vibe with someone isn't always easy to come across but none of us are into the whole friends with benefits thing. I joked with him about it but then we realized it wouldn't be a good idea. I think dating and a possible relationship would be ideal on both our ends but I'm excited to see how things can turn out with us, i care about him.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

no I didn't mean friends with benefits but if you both are in a relationship without living together it is basically just being friends who are also intimate with each other

[20yearsolder]

Maybe because he wants to have his first kiss. Maybe he finds you attractive. Maybe he wants to get in your panties

[Paulalove98]

he's definitely not out for sex. He's not a handsy guy or a player and he's never tried anything on me. he's very polite and family oriented.

[Makeushiver]

Well your kiss probably got his attention. There have been a few times when I've gotten a far sexier kiss than what I was expecting and each time i loved it

[anon1903]

Might be a hell of a kiss

[Amur8711]

He definitely likes you

[Debbie14217]

he loves you