John, my close friend, has this habit of teasing me a lot. It's almost every day, and sometimes it feels like he takes it a bit far.
What's interesting is how he always seems to make a big deal out of doing things I suggest. Like when I asked him to create a handshake with me, he flat-out refused at first. Then, out of the blue, weeks later, he'd suddenly want to do it.
Recently, I suggested we sing a song together, and as expected, he said no right away. But I know him well enough now to bet that sooner or later, he'll be up for it.
I'm just curious why he always puts up a fuss before eventually agreeing to do things together with me or for me.
Personally, I've never held back in doing things for him because he is almost close to being a brother to me. Whereas his treatment towards me is rather peculiar.
He treats me very differently than he treats his other female friends and counterparts.
He teases them but not as excessively as he does to me.
He gives me a hard time, but he doesn't do the same to them.
And then of course, the issue I mentioned above him making a fuss out of things before agreeing to them when I suggest them.
Does my guy friend dislike me and I'm just not seeing it?
There are moments he is absolutely nice and sweet to me... other times not so much.
P. S he is 26.
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Mmm well the teasing. Can be common even the overboard teasing. But that's more of unknowingly doing it
But as far as why he says no right away then agrees, 🤔 hmm maybe he doesn't want to look a certain way? Perhaps he wants to look tough and handshakes or singing doesn't fit that role?
Also are you sure this mu fucka doesn't like you🤔
Lol I'm assuming he doesn't like me because of the way he is towards me. the teasing and everything else I guess
The reason I ask is because perhaps he eventually agrees to do it is because he likes you.
I wouldn't base him not liking you by his teasing
Cause as I said it's common. The severity of the teasing changes though.
Some guys will make fun of girls they like. A couple years ago I use to tease one of my friends and she would tell me years later that they would hurt but everything I said wasn't meant to be mean i was just joking. I bring it up because perhaps he too just isn't aware of him doing it
Perhaps he doesn't like you. But I will say keep an eye out for that possibility 🧐
It may not be as unlikely as you think🤔
I think you're being too nice to him, but that's just me.
hmm what makes you say that?
Just the way you described your relationship with him thus far. I could be wrong, however. I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well if you want. Thank you very much.