Do you like microwave dating?

[Anonymous]

Everything seems so fast and quick with dating, like no one actually gets to genuinely know the person- rush and fast-paced disregarding a person's comfort zone when it comes to dating... met a guy and he instant wanted to bed with me. It's immediately straight into sex and what happened to people getting to know people , grab something to eat , hang out, background checks , stds checks before sleeping with someone - another guy wanted to come pick me up for drinks immediately... I don't know the guy, but woah had to turn him down when I did he moved on to something else. What happened to dating?

[ohsheeT]

I've never ever even heard of this and I would be totally embarrassed to even do it

Don't get me wrong I love sex but microwave dating that just even sounds ridiculous

. And I mean if he can't . Take the time to even cook you a good dinner he's probably not even going to take the time to have sex right.

So to answer your question it would be no and I would just be totally embarrassed if I even did anything close to that

[Asker]

Microwave dating is dating of today - now dating

[ohsheeT]

Yeah I've never ever liked dating I like friendship I like spontaneous I like let's just get up and go do something and if somebody wants to call that a date it can be a date but I don't want anything pre-planned I want it it's just make it happen

[BoopBoopBeep]

You said they just want to have sex not date, then someone wants to take you on a date for drinks and you say no. If you don't actually GO on a date, how is the man supposed to get to know you?

[Explorer91]

I know what you mean. This particularly happens when I go for quite hot men. If I go for more average men they tend to actually ask me out to dinner and cafes and dates. Unfortunately I struggle to find one I am really physically into that doesn't just want to have sex. So I understand the frustration.

[Anonymous]

Nothing happened to it, people just stopped adhering to boundaries that the other party may not have even been upholding.

[laly520]

going straight to bed is huge red flag