The hopeless romantic woman is typically in her late 20s, 30s or 40s. She's been ran through by a number of alpha guys, travelled around the world a bit 🌎 and is now upset that the guy she wants doesn't want her. These women are more forthcoming, compliment you often and don't waste too much time in the courting process. They have passed up on a lot of good quality men in the past and are holding out hope for the fairytale 🧚♂️ marriage proposal.
What’s wrong with being a hopeless romantic? I believe hopeless romantics keep the imagination of true love alive, touching the world- one person at a time.
You either look back on the times you got screwed over by that hopeless romance. Or like @MrOracle said, find someone to slap some sense into you, because sometimes you just don't see it yourself and a good friend wants you to win at life and if you're fucking up, they'll let you know to put you back on the right path.
Be realistic. Accept that people have different intentions and want different things in life from you otherwise you'll always end up being hurt. There's always good and bad in people. Nevertheless do not give up on finding Love because I can tell you you will eventually find it. Love your profile pic by the way.
Nothing wrong with being a hopeless romantic I am. You just gotta slow down find the right guy and then let it out. Don't just show every guy all the romance upfront
Stop expecting the world and live up to earning it.. women expect the world upfront when you first hangout.. that’s not how this works. You fall back into the system of how things should be.. actually getting to know someone, wanting to build a life with them no matter what pomp or circumstance they are in.. you actually might find yourself in a healthy relationship.
For me it helped to stop reading romance books and to try to put my focus on the things in front of me, like supporting my friends when they’re going through a hard time, focusing on school, or things like that.
Hope is rooted in fear and a lack of clarity. Otherwise it would simply be a goal or desire. I simply anticipate that behind every front is a monster, in order to be prepared. Perhaps I'm foolish.
Get realistic on human behavior. Learn to be more cynical…which I would argue is opposite of your personality- which is good. But balance it off with some skepticism.
I would say just be real with yourself girl. It can take a little while to find a committed romantic partner who has the same goals and values that you do. There are people out there who want the exact same romantic relationship that you do. You just have to accept that not every person you meet is going to be like that.
In the 60's there was a pop record entitled: "Come Back When You grow Up Girl"... its lyrics make a lot of valid (if harsh) points. NO ONE is 'perfect'... :'(
Simply remember just how conditional love is. And that, if you can't fulfill the conditions, it's on to the next. You likely won't have much value to them anymore.
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inner self worth and realising that whatever happens you're fine but this also has to come along with acknowledging when a guy genuinely like you nd responding to their cues and not chasing or investing into them when there's no reciprocation.
Turn people into cups of feeling needed to be drank until you're full. Get that energy you're after and get out. Dwelling in the Disney/Religious forever love kills so much beauty in the world.
Nothing wrong with that as long as your view on how love actually works and relationships are not dramatic, fantastical, and unrealistic.. I'm sort of a hopeless romantic..
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The hopeless romantic woman is typically in her late 20s, 30s or 40s. She's been ran through by a number of alpha guys, travelled around the world a bit 🌎 and is now upset that the guy she wants doesn't want her. These women are more forthcoming, compliment you often and don't waste too much time in the courting process. They have passed up on a lot of good quality men in the past and are holding out hope for the fairytale 🧚♂️ marriage proposal.
I was always a hopeless romantic 😇
What’s wrong with being a hopeless romantic? I believe hopeless romantics keep the imagination of true love alive, touching the world- one person at a time.
You either look back on the times you got screwed over by that hopeless romance. Or like @MrOracle said, find someone to slap some sense into you, because sometimes you just don't see it yourself and a good friend wants you to win at life and if you're fucking up, they'll let you know to put you back on the right path.
Be realistic. Accept that people have different intentions and want different things in life from you otherwise you'll always end up being hurt. There's always good and bad in people. Nevertheless do not give up on finding Love because I can tell you you will eventually find it. Love your profile pic by the way.
not everyone wants same
be whom you are but learn and grow.
you are the center of your story... its for you to figure out.
Nothing wrong with being a hopeless romantic I am. You just gotta slow down find the right guy and then let it out. Don't just show every guy all the romance upfront
That's going against what you truly want. that's kind of like gay men asking how to stop being gay.
I recommend you build up some walls and have a little healthy scepticism in people. but don't make it too difficult to let in a lover.
Me too wants love with a super nice and good girl.
Stop expecting the world and live up to earning it.. women expect the world upfront when you first hangout.. that’s not how this works. You fall back into the system of how things should be.. actually getting to know someone, wanting to build a life with them no matter what pomp or circumstance they are in.. you actually might find yourself in a healthy relationship.
Try distracting yourself from your desires by keeping yourself productively busy.
For me it helped to stop reading romance books and to try to put my focus on the things in front of me, like supporting my friends when they’re going through a hard time, focusing on school, or things like that.
Hope is rooted in fear and a lack of clarity. Otherwise it would simply be a goal or desire. I simply anticipate that behind every front is a monster, in order to be prepared. Perhaps I'm foolish.
Get realistic on human behavior. Learn to be more cynical…which I would argue is opposite of your personality- which is good. But balance it off with some skepticism.
I would say just be real with yourself girl. It can take a little while to find a committed romantic partner who has the same goals and values that you do. There are people out there who want the exact same romantic relationship that you do. You just have to accept that not every person you meet is going to be like that.
In the 60's there was a pop record entitled: "Come Back When You grow Up Girl"... its lyrics make a lot of valid (if harsh) points. NO ONE is 'perfect'... :'(
Simply remember just how conditional love is. And that, if you can't fulfill the conditions, it's on to the next. You likely won't have much value to them anymore.
inner self worth and realising that whatever happens you're fine but this also has to come along with acknowledging when a guy genuinely like you nd responding to their cues and not chasing or investing into them when there's no reciprocation.
I'm a hopeless cynical romantic these days.
It's like being a romantic, just with the experience of having your nuts crushed regularly enough to stop it being overwhelming...
You become a wise hopeless romantic and never cease believing in rediscovering that "first love" moment
Turn people into cups of feeling needed to be drank until you're full. Get that energy you're after and get out. Dwelling in the Disney/Religious forever love kills so much beauty in the world.
Nothing wrong with that as long as your view on how love actually works and relationships are not dramatic, fantastical, and unrealistic.. I'm sort of a hopeless romantic..