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1 mo

The one night stand that never was…….. kicked out after an hour?

Anonymous

I have been working at a pub since July last year and since I started working there me and one of the managers have been flirting from the start

We had a few moments where something could have happened between us after work but it never did. Before anything happened he got back with an ex girlfriend and I had accepted that nothing was going to happen

A few weeks ago I gave my notice as I got a new job and he broke up with his ex girlfriend again. Almost as soon as these two things happened, the flirting started up again, which at the time I thought its just a harmless flirt and i’m leaving so nothing will come from it as neither of us did anything about it before.

A week or so after I had left the pub, he liked me on hinge and we did match, and after s few days of back and forth chatting we agreed to meet up, we’d spoken about how we both werent really looking for anything serious at the moment, me due to my new job and him having just been dumped. We arranged for me to go round his for a few drinks one night.


But when I got to his, there he started talking about how his flatmate was out and would be back soon, kind of hinting we need to get this over with, I was a bit thrown but decided to stay anyway as i thought i would used that as my excuse to go if i wanted to as well. One thing led to another and we hooked up, the whole thing felt rushed and as soon as it was done he started talking about his friend coming back home soon, but he was also talking about how next time we would have a sleepover etc. I ended up leaving right after this and didn't stay round.

I think i was in shock that it was all over so quickly that i didn't process everything hi, when i next saw him I wasn't as chatty he seemed a bit shocked. i just dont get why he was annoyed i wasn't speaking to him much when he was the one that kicked me out? Did he even like me or was just a quick shag for him. Why did he want me out so quickly?

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1 mo
When we did see each other in person, I kind of ignored him a bit and was that chatty with him, like I normally am. The next day I asked why he hadn’t messaged and he said he wasn't in the right place for anything casual
The one night stand that never was…….. kicked out after an hour?
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