How can I get a guy im dating to show me he's interested like am?

[Mia230]

For example he hasn't told his friends about me because he doesn't want them to "steal me away " , but they can't do that if I'm not the least interested. I am not interested in them or anyone else but he feels it's better to keep me private since as he puts it "things are going good". I also haven't met his family either but he's met mine. he's muslin so his parents prefer him to be with a Muslim woman , I just want to feel included in his life, guys think im single because he doesn't make it known on social media that we are at least a couple a simple" beautiful or pretty" comment is all I'm asking I want to be off the market lol** it's been since late September since we've been hanging out and dating since December.

[Mr_twoface]

I would say if it bothers you, put down an ultimatum to him, that he goes public or your done. You deserve to be treated with respect and dignity!

The thing with most Muslim guys is that they can’t openly state they have girlfriends nor want to show them in public and hence makes up BS stories to keep their girlfriends satisfied! I know way too many men who do this and it’s pathetic that you can lie to someone (her) but you can’t show face being with them! For others it’s not all about being Muslim but having the same origin, for instance being Kurdish! They can’t see themselves beyond that yet they experience life with girlfriends/boyfriends of other cultures and religions and do not keep up their end of commitment!

[Mia230]

Hmm I didn't think of that , I think I may have to ask his more questions so we don't waste time

[Mr_twoface]

Indeed! Don't let him with his words, no matter how sweet and awesome he is, make you feel otherwise. You should be treated like a girlfriend if that is what he wants and should be proud of you regardless of beliefs or traditions. Don't waste your time!

[bowenw]

You can’t make someone do the kinds of things you want. They should be automatic and not forced if some is genuinely into you.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Nice222]

It sounds to me like he is hiding you. Maybe you are his side chick? Maybe he is in another relationship?

[Mia230]

He says I'm the only one , he can't entertain multiple women it may be a muslim thing but I don't know if I want that , I want someone to be proud to be with me

[In_Trance]

you can't

[Mia230]

I'll try