What if a woman wanted to be a guy so she can get away with stuff?

[Anonymous]

[Jamie05rhs]

I read your other comments. Why would you actually *want* to be a hoe? Can you explain your reasoning? I don't understand; sorry.

[Asker]

Because I used to have to put up with the bull crap.

[Jamie05rhs]

What bull crap?

[Asker]

Of dudes sleeping with women and leaving them alone

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh. That.

Well, you don't have to put up with that bull crap. Don't fall for their tricks. Just don't have sex with them.

[Asker]

Still rather be a man you all don’t realize how easy you all have it.

[Jamie05rhs]

How exactly do we have it easy?

(Thanks for the MHO, by the way.)

[Asker]

Because men don’t get pregnant so if they give a woman a fake name and she gets pregnant there is no way of her knowing how to tell on him like his identity to make him pay for child support.

[Jamie05rhs]

Why would she be getting pregnant? You can only get pregnant if you have sex with someone. And don't you think you should meet his parents first, at least? They will gladly tell you if he's lying or not.

[Asker]

No they don’t his family isn’t going to tell her anything because they are looking out for him and not her.

[Asker]

That’s why exactly why it is not a good thing to be the gender to have it easier to get laid because of stupid stuff like that.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. You don't think you're going to find out eventually?

And if you don't trust his family, then what about his friends? What about his coworkers? What about his pastor?

Come on, now. People can only keep up a deception for so long.

[Asker]

Nope nobody cares about telling you stuff the only people who are going to tell her is her own family.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, I guess you'll just have to do the work yourself, then. Investigate him thoroughly. Leave no stone unturned.

[Jamie05rhs]

Also, you know you can ask him for his driver's license, right?
And then check the information against an online database to see if it matches up.

[Asker]

Well if you see red flags a woman shouldn’t be dating him.

[Jamie05rhs]

I agree!! 👍

[ohsheeT]

Well what is she trying to get away with

[Asker]

Being a hoe because only men can be hoes.

[ohsheeT]

Yeah I agree there to a point but I think what you're talking about is something different it's like in the old days when guys would call girls sluts.

I used to laugh at that because I saw it in a different way guys could get in bed with a girl everyday is another a different girl each and every day and they weren't called sluts but if a girl gets with a guy and. They go for a test ride and he doesn't really well her or anything so she goes out and finds what she wants so she gets called to slut and I think that's just totally wrong I think you should be able to do whatever you want to do when you want to do it to find what you're looking for and as a matter of fact I love the word slut. . I think you should be able to do whatever you want to do and it's nobody else's business all you're doing is same thing the guys do trying to find what you're looking for

[Asker]

Yeah but you won’t be able to get married if you are a slut as a woman. So I prefer to be a guy because they still able to get married for it.

[Hanrej]

Just be the one who pays on dates and guys won't care about your hoe status.

[Asker]

@Hanrej that’s not going to work.

[Hanrej]

Ever tried?

[Asker]

@Hanrej that’s unrealistic that’s how the world is this is a man’s world not a woman’s.

[ohsheeT]

I see a completely the other way around you own the pussy so you are the boss you say yes or no not him..

But here's the thing if you say no
Then he's going to go search someplace else is that what you're saying.

Because if you say no you have a reason for saying no because of your morals values and ethics maybe..

Where the guy he's just an out of control dog in heat that has no morals values or ethics.

So why would you want to be like him

[Asker]

Probably because it is annoying to put up with if I were a man I don’t have to put up with jackasses.

[Vegasrunner]

@Asker TY for proving my point

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner stay out of every fucking post that isn’t relevant of you asshole. I’m done talking to you.

[MrOracle]

I suspect that you wouldn't like all of the female privileges you'd lose - PLUS, you'd probably end up as an average guy, and average guys struggle to get laid - it's not uncommon to go years without sex.

The guys who can be "hoes" are the top 5% guys - the ones that all the women want - but you probably wouldn't end up being one of those guys.

Here's a woman who actually tried it:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ip7kP_dd6LU

Norah's experience living as a man was so profound - she was so horrified at what men have to deal with - that she became mentally ill, was hospitalized several times, and ultimately committed suicide.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Zj4Tw9ZcGFA

[Asker]

Ugly dudes be getting the pussy too but they don’t stay with the women because they are ugly like them. Ugly guys can’t get a woman that is out of their league which is what they really want so they have sex with the women that are in their league but they end up losing interest in those women because they don’t find them attractive.

[MrOracle]

That happens a BIT, but not nearly as much as you imagine. Even ugly girls want hot guys, and generally won't sleep with average guys these days.

[Asker]

The same applies to you guys the ugly guys still get pussy they aren’t going to turn down any pussy. Having sex isn’t the same as wanting a relationship with somebody.

[crossdressingrihno]

Ma’am, I don’t know what you’re talking about. A lot of guys can’t even take their kid to the park without being labeled a pedophile we don’t get away with shit.


If a woman accidentally stubbed her toe on a door, she could get her boyfriend arrested for assault if a man’s were to beat him up with a glass bottle he would still get arrested for assault.
We don’t get away with anything.


If a man cheats on his girlfriend And she tells everyone his social life is ruined.
If a man’s girlfriend cheats on him and he tells everyone his social life is ruined.
We don’t get away with anything.




Y’all don’t realize it, but women are the ones getting away with everything.
If you look at articles about child predators, You realize that articles about female predators will say things like “had sex with” While a male predator will have headlines saying “raped”.




If that’s not enough, it’s a lot easier for a man to have his children taken away from him than it is for a woman to have her children taken away from her Even if the man is a father and the woman is an Abusive hag.










There isn’t much great about being a man.
For most men, it’s lonely and depressing.

[strateguy632]

um i doubt any lady would say i am a man to "use men restroom, locker room or prison." or to join nfl nba!

it isn't to do stuff it is to complain at the girl scool "teacher insulted us by saying good morning girls". that event was cray cray! the teacher was threatened to apologize! in a girl scool... absurd!

only the other way invader does your idea.

[Cheapskate]

That sounds dumb. I think it's far easier to get away with stuff as a woman. People are more likely to trust you, to want to help you, and you will even likely get a lighter punishment if caught.

[Asker]

Men can’t be hoes like women are actually the more sexually partners a woman has that lowers of chances of getting married.

[Cheapskate]

So you wanna be a man so you can hoe out lol?

[Asker]

Yes because women aren’t allowed to do it women still marry men for being hoes.

[Cheapskate]

That is because getting laid is HARD for men. Like it's quite an accomplishment. Getting laid is extremely easy for women.

[Asker]

I don’t see how it is hard for men to get laid because after they have sex with a woman they lose interest. If it were hard they wouldn’t drop women after sex.

[Cheapskate]

Also, I think it totally depends on what culture you live in. I see lots of American men talking about body count and how they want a pure woman and so on, and to me that is just because America is a bit of a backwards conservative religious place. So you still have these old-fashioned gender roles which hold a lot of power there. But everywhere isn't like that. And everyone isn't like that. I bet you there are happily married ex-porn actresses or even current porn actresses. I met a porn actress once, and she had a boyfriend, despite her job.

[Cheapskate]

That is because men value variety. It's like you don't want to watch the same movie over and over. But if the attraction is more than sexual, if they have an actual crush on her, then they will probably want to stay with her.

[Asker]

I don’t do porn or only fans and not even a stripper. I just know if it is causal sex that you aren’t going to be able to keep a man. Men see that as if you sleep with them you’ll sleep with any man.

[Cheapskate]

I assure you that for most guys, even the attractive ones, getting laid is not easy.

I think the only ones it is really easy for are men with a lot of seduction experience, or famous men.

[Cheapskate]

That sounds more like the culture you inhabit. Maybe the men there are very closed-minded and conservative in their attitudes to women. I would advise finding a different type of social circle then.

[Asker]

Nope your everyday guy does it too trust me I know look at all these people in this world. It takes two people of the opposite sex to bring a child in the world. Unless you use a sperm donor.

[Cheapskate]

I know they do it, but most of them don't find it easy. Why do you think guys go out in groups and stay at a club till four in the morning and get drunk and then stumble home alone? They are trying and failing to get laid. It's not like they love clubs or dancing or wearing fancy clothes.

[Asker]

Getting laid is easy for men because if I wasn’t easy they wouldn’t leave a woman after sex. Usually guys lose respect for a woman if he sleeps with her too soon. Men are looking for a woman with standards. But for men it is different women don’t care about men having high body count.

[Asker]

It*,

[Cheapskate]

I think you need to see it like this: there are three mating drives: sexual attraction, which is very broad, infatuation (having a crush) which is narrower, and then attachment, which is when a long-term bond develops between two people in a relationship. This is based on neuroscience.

If a guy sleeps with you and dumps you the next day, most likely the attraction was only sexual - he didn't have big feelings for you in the first place. Men know women want commitment, so they will fake having feelings for you to get laid.

But yeah, I still think it's a good idea to wait a bit to sleep with a guy, because it weeds out some of the guys who just want sex - they can't be bothered to wait that long. But it's not foolproof. Some guys are very patient and never get laid anyway, so they will wait a long time for that opportunity.

Not all men are looking for a woman with "standards". I think generally men are looking for women with high status, women their friends would be impressed they were dating. This usually means she has to be beautiful.

Again, I think the guys who care a lot about body count are usually some super conservation assholes who would make a bad partner for you anyway, because they just want you in the kitchen cooking for them with no freedom for you. Those kinds of guys are selfish and closed-minded and unkind.

A kind, open-minded man could accept that you had a high body count.

The important thing is to protect yourself from STDs and pregnancy and to stay healthy.

[Cheapskate]

*conservative

[Asker]

I can see what you are saying now I understand. Thanks

[Asker]

It still be hurting my feelings when men be acting like that because it’s disrespectful.

[Cheapskate]

You are welcome. And yeah, I understand that. I don't really get why they do it, but I think they got a shitty message from their parents or their religion or their culture about how women should be. Those guys are often hypocrites, because they think it is fine if they sleep around.

Anyway, good luck!

[NamerOfStars]

Then unless it's a very narrow, specific type of "stuff", she's in for quite a surprise if she tries it.

[Asker]

How so?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

A woman tried that and killed herself after she wrote a book about how hard it is to be a man.

[Asker]

That’s because she wasn’t a real man when you have a sex change operation your body doesn’t function like a real man’s.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

So you think there's something biologically different about men that in 2024 allows them to get away with more than woman?

[Asker]

Yes because it’s in men’s nature to want to spread their seed. Men can have sex with no love for the woman at all.

[Asker]

And transgender men don’t carry sperm.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

How does that make them get away with more than woman?

[Asker]

Because women get pregnant and men don’t.

[Asker]

You all need to tell me about a real man born as a male at birth killing himself for being a man.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It happens way more than it does to woman. The male suicide rate is like triple woman's or something. And the woman wasn't a trans. She was a writer who went "undercover" so she was trying to learn what it was like to live as a man. She thought she was going to get to do whatever she wanted and was baffled by how rude, inconsiderate and demanding people became once she was able to pass for a man.

[Asker]

So she killed herself because she was pretending to be a man ok that makes a lot of sense. Smdh

[Telekinetic-Potato]

She killed herself because she spend her career being a feminist and basing it off of how much easier she thought men had things and then she was depressed by how much harder she realized we have it by truing to live through it

[Asker]

If I can not go on birth control I be happy because no guy is going to be responsible for preventing pregnancy.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

What?

[Asker]

Men aren’t responsible if a woman gets pregnant like it is the woman’s job to go on birth control.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

How does that make any sense? You don't check to make sure he's got a condom on? What about child support?

I don't really see how the guy is getting away with anything.

If anything, it's pretty priveledged that a woman can just have sex with whoever she wants, she has no responsibility to use contraceptives but if she wants to keep the baby and keep the dad out, he has to pay for all of it and stay away.

[Asker]

My grandfathers they didn’t have to pay child support actually after my grandmas got pregnant with my parents they ran off and never came back. I guess things has changed since then who knows if the guy didn’t give you a fake name so you can’t tell anyone who the daddy is. You have to investigate and know who the daddy is to get him to pay child support.

[JacobJordan]

She is stupid. Women get away with just about everything.

[Asker]

No you’re stupid because men aren’t capable of getting pregnant and people blame the for being single woman because she made a poor choice with who she slept with.

[JacobJordan]

Shocking that people blame the gender that controls access to sex when she makes poor choices when it comes to sex. Almost like she made poor fucking choices about how she allowed to be inside her. If you wind up pregnant and single it is YOUR fault because you picked a shit man. Start picking better men you and you would end up married and taken care of. That is what happened with my wife and I. Married her and she got pregnant. Take accountability I know it is hard

[Asker]

You just prove my point exactly bravo because there is not a thing you said nothing about the men who do the shady stuff to women. So men do have it easier when they aren’t held accountable for spreading their seed.

[Asker]

How come the men can’t make better choices you know why because they don’t have to. And you just prove my point why would I want to be a woman to be held accountable for someone else’s shit behavior.

[JacobJordan]

Women control access to sex dear. If women said no then a man can't spread his seed. So yes it is entirely a woman's fault. Stop picking shitty partners

[Asker]

Thanks for proving my case so you just now telling me that it is easier to be a man because men aren’t held accountable for shit.

[JacobJordan]

Men are indeed held accountable. Thing is men don't get sex unless a woman allows it. That makes it the woman's responsibility. Here is another fact. 25% of guys are abusive. 75% are not. And yet somehow you women keep picking guys that beat the fuck out of you. Dude is a pos for being abusive. Women are stupid af for picking an abuser. Men always take the blame for shit because most western women are too fucking pathetic to take accountability. Being a woman is the easiest shit on earth. You sit there and wait for a guy to hand you everything.

[Asker]

If I could have my cake and eat it too I be happy I don’t have to worry about carrying a baby for months and the responsibility of caring for a child is mostly set on the woman. I get to have all the sex I want with as many woman as I want. Men won’t be doing it if they didn’t get away with it if women are making it easy for them to take advantage of them then shit I take it.

[jahaims]

She would be in for a surprise when she is held even more accountable

[Asker]

Like what

[Vegasrunner]

Asker Goodbye and TY for validating my point.

[Asker]

Hasta la vista rain man number 2

[Asker]

You’re block now so nice try continue going on running your stupid mouth.

[JayBones2469]

I don't think you have the brains or maturity to be a guy.

[Asker]

So men are mature?

[JayBones2469]

Much more and much more earlier in life. Although I'm Gen X and my daughter does complain about her classmates both male and female. Maybe my take is out dated. Date an old man I guess.

[BCRanger10]

What kind of stuff?

[Asker]

Like cheating and sleeping around and don’t be held accountable for it.

[BCRanger10]

Why would she get away with that if she were in a relationship?

[Asker]

Because women are hoes but men can’t be hoes. I wish I can get all the pussy and get away with it.

[Snakeyes7]

Get away with what exactly?

[Asker]

Being a hoe

[Snakeyes7]

Lmao, good luck with that. Whatever you become, you only have a 10% chance that you would become one that women would gladly hook up with at any given moment.

[Asker]

I think that you men be lying because how do women get pregnant and don’t have a father present in their life. Like if it wasn’t hard to get pussy guy’s wouldn’t be leaving soon after they get it.

[Snakeyes7]

Because they keep choosing the top 10% who have so many women throwing themselves at him that he cares enough about you to fuck you but not enough to stay because he keeps giving into the temptation of hooking up with another girl.

This doesn't happen to the average man because the average man does have women throwing themselves at him like the men who pump and dump do.

[Asker]

No not choosing the ten percent even ugly guys be getting to play women too. What world do you live in because it’s not the same world as I live in.

[Snakeyes7]

I live in Earth. I assume your head is somewhere in lala land.

[Asker]

No I live in reality some of those dudes do be ugly and still are able to get women. Women like ugly guys too are you high as gas? Even ugly guys don’t stay with what they can get they think the grass is greener on the other side too.

[Snakeyes7]

That is absolutely not what dating app statistics show. That was where I got the 10 percent from as the average female user only see the top 10% of men on there as worthy of swiping right.

[Asker]

Yeah I know what the hell im talking about even the ugly guys have their own type that they like they settle for women they actually like even if they can get a woman if the woman isn’t his type he isn’t settling for it. And dating apps are strictly for hookups people go on there for sex not relationships. Not believe statistics because they go by what people say and people lie.

[Snakeyes7]

We ARE talking about hookups, dumbass. That's what "being a hoe" means.

[Asker]

You’re the dumbass because you act like stuff don’t be common that dudes don’t have it easy to get laid when the stuff is common. You are making it seem like it is only a sorted type of guy who does it no it’s not.

[Alex-Snow]

Why do you say that?

[Asker]

So I can be a hoe and don’t get shame for it.

[Alex-Snow]

Some guys get shamed for being a "player"

[Asker]

How?

[Alex-Snow]

Because they sleep around and do not give a shit about the girls feelings

[Asker]

That’s a plus for them because people usually blame the girl for dealing with a guy like that.