Girls, Have you ever dated a guy for 2 years got everything you needed then lost interest?

[Anonymous]

Like lived a good lifestyle, got a car split costs on everything

[Anonymous]

Something about this post tells me that the guy doesn’t really get it. He probably thinks that because he was providing all this stuff and splitting costs with her she shouldn’t have any complaints or issues, but there’s so much more to being in a relationship that the materialistic things. He could be buying her the world but severely lacking in areas that are important to her.

[Asker]

She couldn’t communicate anytime I would try to sit down with her and talk she would throw a fit and have a temper tantrum. Our friends constantly talked about how our communication sucked and I was like well I’m trying I don’t know what else to do

[Opinion Owner]

I feel like I’ve spoken with you about this woman before, and if that is true then my sentiments will be the same: she just was not a good woman. This is my opinion of her after all that you’ve mentioned, not this post. This post calls for a generic response, and I believe that for the average, sound-minded woman who’s no longer happy in a relationship where she’s getting everything, then he’s likely not supporting her in the areas of her life that matter most. In your exes case, she was just vile and ridiculous for no good reason. I believe you said that she was either your first girlfriend or one of your few experiences in a relationship, and if that’s the case then please don’t let that shitty experience set the tone for how you date going forward. It’s quite literally traumatizing when you meet that person that seemingly ruins it for everyone else, but my biggest advice is not to let her have that much influence in your life. I can specifically think of two absolutely horrible relationships that threw me into deep depression and dark thoughts, but if I didn’t learn to forgive them and move on, I’d still be stagnant after all these years. You encountered an awful woman, but it doesn’t mean you won’t eventually meet the right one, or that she sets the tone for what you can expect.

[Curiositykilledcat7]

Yeah If it’s boring I loose interest I’d rate toxic then boredom