Gave up on dating 3 years ago, did I do the right thing?

[Anonymous]

Yes ı'm just average looking (not now, gained weigh) and only 5'6 so i didn't approach women ın the last 3 years

[Anonymous]

Hard to say. I gave up 20 years. ago. Then I decided to try my luck again about 5 years ago. The results were pretty similar. The only difference is women approach me now.

I don't think you should give up per se. But you should only put effort forth to the women who EARN it.

[slatyb]

Are you happy?

You look fine to me. Of you want to date, maybe you should try finding a dating coach. There are professional counselors who specialize in that..

[laly520]

u know the best if u did the right thing or not, only u could answer that

on a side note, u aren't ugly or unapproachable but u have to work on ur self esteem before approaching any girl

[Asker]

But ı'm 5'6

[laly520]

there r many girls out there who would date a 5'6

[IslaTheWitch]

how would we know?

It's your life, your decision, your consequences. Why do you want us to validate your choices?

[Abbycado]

Do YOU feel you did the right thing? I can't answer that for you.

[handsomelad70]

It's your decision, but keep your eyes, mind and heart open for the next possible girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

You're not ugly. You can still get a girl if you really wanted to.

[Asker]

I'm 5'6

[Opinion Owner]

So is my boyfriend

[Asker]

Maybe u asexual?

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely not lol

[Asker]

You must be

[Opinion Owner]

No I have plenty of sex with my boyfriend

[Asker]

So you're atteacted to hım? Thats good to hear

[Asker]

I feel like ı'm never gonna hate sex

[Opinion Owner]

You will. Like I said before you're not ugly at all.

[Asker]

Thanks, how dış yıu meet with your boyfriend by the way? And how old are you two

[Opinion Owner]

32 and 33. We met in college.

[Asker]

Sooo the relationship started more than 10 years ago?

[Opinion Owner]

No we just got together last year. We've been friends for over 10 years though

[Asker]

Danny😆why did ıt took so long

[Opinion Owner]

My fault. I was into someone else when we were in college. I should have chosen him then and there though. He was the better guy.

[Asker]

Damn... And i thought short men had chance... You had your fun and than you settled for him

[Opinion Owner]

You do have a chance. The other guy I was with wasn't that tall either.

[Anonymous]

You did the right thing. Don't date anyone. Go get a mentor and build yourself up over the next 5 years. Trust me.

[Rangers]

It's a bit early to give up

[jahaims]

Stop looking for an ego stroke

[Iron_Man]

No get out there

[In_Trance]

Yeah