Am I egoistic for thinking I don't anyone to ruin my peaceful life?

[Anonymous]

I live well by my own, I found my own goals and equilibrium.

Now, when it comes to just the thought of dating I am reluctant and try avoid it. Nonetheless, my friends enjoy it and look forward meeting new people, also they feel bad alone.

Is it bad that I don't feel the need to meet someone new? I know out there, there is someone compatible to all of us but many stories of jerking-around, crying, hitting ecc.. made me reluctant. Am I egoistic for thinking someone may ruin my peace? Also I am too emotional to handle a jerk and cry for someone worth 0 of my time.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I don't think it's egotistical at all to want to protect your peace of mind!

Relationships are so messy and dating can definitely bring drama if you're not careful. It makes total sense that after hearing all the horror stories, you're not rushing to put yourself out there.

As long as you're still open if an amazing opportunity comes along naturally through friends or whatever, I say keep doing your thing! Focus on your goals and being independent. That's hot!

Plus you know yourself - if you're extra emotional like me and would be sobbing for weeks over some dude who doesn't deserve your tears, staying single protects your energy.

Don't let your friends make you feel bad about liking your own company. We're not all meant to couple up, you know? You do you, girl. Your peace is the most important thing!

[Anonymous]

No. That's fine

[Opinion Owner]

I'm with an amazing girl, but if we were to break up, I'd probably just stay single. Dating seems exhausting these days.

[Asker]

Exactly! That's exactly what I think. I don't understand why people just stay together in a shallow way just for the sake of it. I like one guy but it does not work I am good being alone haha