I found out my boyfriend is married should I block him or ghost him? Should I confront him? He knows where I work at and live at?

[Anonymous]

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I’m 18

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh my God girl, I'm so sorry this happened to you! You definitely gotta block that lying jerk ASAP on everything. Like he does NOT need any way to contact you at all.

I'd be freaking livid too if I were you and wanna confront him, but it's really not worth the risk. Guys like that you just never know how crazy they could get. I saw this thing on TikTok about a girl whose ex showed up at her work after she dumped him, it was scary!

Just cut all ties nice and clean so there's no confusion - he's outta your life now. And maybe message him something like "Found out the truth, don't ever contact me again" so he knows you're done but leave it at that.

Stay close to your girlfriends too for a while in case he tries anything sneaky. Ugh I'm so mad for you! You totally dodged a bullet with that slimeball though, now you're free to meet an amazing guy who will treat you right. Keep your chin up girl, you got this! 💪

[zagor]

Is he "actively" married or has he been separated for a long time and never got divorced? My sister was married to her ex for 10 years but after the first 5 they split and only met to do their taxes.

[midnightmoon05]

How did you two become boyfriend. girlfriend? How did he earn that title?

[Asker]

We started talking and I said I like him and we started dating

[midnightmoon05]

Block him now that you found out… you are 18… learn this lesson…

[Abbycado]

You’re older than me. That’s sad you have to ask this. Smh

[Asker]

I’m actually 18

[mbarsi01]

Tell him you’ll find his house and ruin his life if he talks to you again. That’ll scare him away

[NotTacocaT6969]

I would tell his wife.

[Asker]

I don’t know her whereabouts

[NotTacocaT6969]

Someone does.

It’s just a matter of snooping really.

[Asker]

I don’t know one and but he does have a girl friend

[Iron_Man]

I agree with you this Man needs to be stopped

[ChicoFromThe305]

Confront him and end it

[Iron_Man]

You confront him face-to-face

[Asker]

How about texting?

[Iron_Man]

This is to important for something like that. Face-to-face is better. Give him a piece of your mind.

[Iron_Man]

That’s what teenagers do they text when there is problems I like ironing out my problems in person

[Asker]

Yeah but I don’t feel safe around him because he lied about his entire life

[Iron_Man]

Meet at a restaurant where there’s a lot of people also I would highly recommend that you tell the wife what he’s doing just like the other user said

[Iron_Man]

If you had sex with him, he’s actually committed adultery

[Asker]

He keep saying he’s busy

[Iron_Man]

Give him another chance if he doesn’t make it then you need to talk to the wife and stop this man because he’ll just do it to other people

[Asker]

Another chance at what?

[Iron_Man]

No, not like that I’m talking about another chance to meet you face-to-face for you to say what the hell is going on why did you do this? Give him a piece of your mind make him feel guilty. But if he fails to meet you then just go right to the Wife find her

[Asker]

Thanks

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome. Good luck.