My boyfriend got married and divorced he never told me?

[CwgL7]

Me and my boyfriend haven’t been dating that long, but our relationship moved pretty fast and I decided to move in with him for a lot of reasons…. And last night I accidentally stumbled upon one of his old social media pages when I found that he had been married previously And he never told me, to make things worse I don’t know how I didn’t realize this but he gave me one of her sweaters as a present… and he uses her leather Bouquet wrap that has his brand on it (he is a cowboy) As decoration in the house we live in…. it took me finding old photos to realize that

anyways I asked him about it this morning and he told me I don’t talk about the past why would I…. it anytime I bring up how he really should’ve told me he just defends him self am I in the wrong for being upset or is he in the wrong for not telling me

PS: i’m crying a lot right now so If there’s any typos sorry

[TrueConfection]

His past is his to talk about or not. However, a previous marriage is definitely something he should have shared with you. That's a huge part of his life (past or not) and I think you have every right to feel hurt and excluded from that information. I'd start asking more questions about his past since he's not freely offering some big info.

[Pyrofox]

Your pouring salt in a wound that clearly hasn't healed I'd say it would be smarter to leave an open invitation for him to talk to you about it when he's ready. And if you really love him you could explain that you want to learn from what went wrong so you don't make the same disasterous choices and that he can trust in you to be the one. Cause I think he would appreciate the fact that you are making an effort to be a keeper.

[FilmGuy93]

Why are you crying? This situation doesn’t mean anything. That’s why he didn’t tell you; he’s divorced

[boggboss]

U have a right to be upset over this yes but he is right in that he doesn't have ti tell u it's shitty not too but meh

[Avicenna]

He should have told you something like that

[Guy13]

Yikes ⁉️

[CwgL7]

I’m a allowed to be upset or is he right and he doesn’t have to tell me his past?

[Guy13]

I would be surprised, perturbed, and upset. That’s not minor…now he forced to figure out why divorced and why lie about it. Now you have to play P. I.