What are women looking for in guys with dating in 2024? What are their requirements?

[Anonymous]

What are women looking for when dating and getting into a relationship in 2024?

[blueonblack22]

In every time era you are going to see two spectrums of women. On one spectrum you got naturally wholesome honest and hardworking women who respect likewise dedicated men. They want to have families. Then on the other side of the spectrum you got Cersei Lannister types from the game of thrones. Lying manipulative, self absorbed and amoral. Then in the middle you got a large percentage of the silent majority and they are very impressionable to the zeitgeist of the times.

I also believe women are generally more impressionable then men because they rather “fit in” so they are socially acceptable vs. using critical thinking skills to logically determine what’s best for their lives. Women fear being social outcasts more then men.

Men are taught to be independent and to be held accountable for their own decisions. We are also taught to be risk takers. Sure we make plenty of stupid decisions. But society doesn’t give us shoulders to cry on when we become victims of our own doing. For example did you cheat on your girlfriend/wife and she left you because of it? That’s on YOU buddy. You can’t get away with gaslighting your girlfriend/wife for the mistakes she made that “drove” you into making a bad decision. Nobody feels sorry for you.

But for some reason society keeps giving women sympathy for their bad decision making liken they are adolescents who just don’t know any better. Society keeps telling them feel good lies vs the cold hard truth.

So back to being impresionable. Social media, politics and especially modern feminism has kept selling women a pack of lies that being in a devoted relationship, being married and heaven forbid having children and being a devoted wife/mother is “servitude to patriarchy” or some bullshit.

They are also being told they are entitled to man who is out of their league. Sure women have always fantasized about being with a rich and famous celebrity. But they used to be more realistic at the end of the day. Not anymore and social media has brought out the worst of this. Feminism tells them to “follow their heart” to their own self indulged self destruction.

in my opinion Men can’t do anything about this. I personally believe that this won’t ever change until an entire generation of women find out the hard way that this is the path to destruction.

[DextroShade]

Shamelessly stolen from a MGTOW blog:

“A woman today just wants a guy who is 3 meters (9 feet) tall, and looks UP to her;

A very commanding and independent man, who obeys her every command;

A rich guy who doesn’t care about money or material stuff, but showers her with material stuff;

A guy who’ll let her pursue her career, while taking care of her to make sure she succeeds in her personal endeavors;

A man who doesn’t care about a woman’s looks, BUT tells her she’s the most beautiful woman to him in the whole world;

A guy whose undivided attention she should have exclusive access to, 24/7, but he should not be clingy;

A real man who is very confident, BUT at the same time should burn with jealousy for her;

He should have lots of passion to want her only for himself, BUT should also have no qualms if she is caught having a little flirtation with an interesting guy; plus he should “try to understand” and not start any drama if she meets her biggest celebrity crush and he asks her out; or if she sometimes just ‘feels’ like sleeping around like her girl friends do, just for one time ( “just this girls’ night out, please” ).

As you can see, she isn’t asking for much;

She just wants a very handsome guy, whom no other woman is attracted to.”

[LittleMelissa9614]

Good personality, loving, affectionate, respectful, caring, generous, supportive, understanding, patient, kind, loyal, honest, trustworthy, faithful, protective, fun loving, and adventurous kind of man. Has a good sense of humor and can make me laugh. Good with kids and wants kids. Loves me for me and for who I am. Let's me be myself around him. Be there for me no matter what, good and bad, thick and thin and I'll do all the same for him. To fall in love with and spend the rest of my life with.

[thatshydork]

My personal requirements are:

Respectful of everyone around them

is good with kids

knows how to and will do things like cleaning up after themselves and taking care of themselves. If they’re old enough to date me, they’re old enough to take care of themselves.

christian

makes me laugh

gets along with my friends and family. I don’t want to date someone who doesn’t get along with the people in my life because if they don’t, it’ll just be really stressful for me.

[V_Injector]

Lots of money that they will let her have. Giant penis, absurdly tall, socially loved, and able to hold a conversation.

When you are that guy though... why would I settle for her?

[V_Injector]

The only thing better that getting some pussy... more pussy.

[DarkLegacy]

They are unrealistic, shallow and fairy tale. They want six pack, six foot, six figure sum for starters. They also want a doormat, someone they can control and let them get away with doing whatever they want. They will offer nothing to bring to the table and will expect you to agree to that.

Being a violent criminal will also help although you will find women will lie about this, but the proof is in the pudding. They will also be manipulative with the old 'he has changed now' or circumstances justified what he did.

[Asker]

That's how it has seemed so far; not quite that unrealistic, but unrealistic.

[JHAYES317]

From what I’ve seen on female dating profiles/social media

At least average height (ideally above average)


At least average d size (ideally above average)


decent head of hair ideally (if bald then need to be in good physical shape)


Dad bod is ok if you have hair…just don’t be fat


Older than them or at least same age


Richer than them or at least make the same money

[JHAYES317]

And note I fail at most of these so that’s why I don’t have dating success lol

[Little_Bumblebee]

For me, to put it in simple terms:

Someone I enjoy spending time with.
Mutual attraction.
Chemistry
Someone who shows interest.
Financially responsible (just means he's not living beyond his means, doesn't blow up his money on stuff he cannot afford, and isn't in debt because of stupid shit)

I would love for him to be able to geek with me, and maybe work out together as well. - not always, just occasionally

I want someone to trust, and someone who trusts me.

[4ngelic]

depends on the girl so i'll just answer for me

looks: not ugly, not fat, clean, grooms & dresses himself well enough, between 20/21 & 27, at least 5'7 1/2 (i'm low 5'8)

personality: not mean, loyal, not boring, some similarities, has to be at least kinda chill and not a get angry super easily type, can't be too controlling or too jealous, not too clingy

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Chemistry and compatibility for me. Some want certain physical attributes, some don't find that important. I don't think all women have the same "requirements" so it may depend.

[RebelinSteel]

A quick trip to the high street, shopping centre etc will shows now much has changed really, all types end up in relationships and get married. The main problem is people listening to Social media and not leaving their bedroom and actually socialising.

[boggboss]

Depends on the type of women u are looking for to be honest

[Asker]

Slightly above average, but nothing unrealistic and nothing high maintenance; something long term. And I'm not a simp and don't "need" sex (meaning I won't do anything just to get some).

[boggboss]

For u whats avrage or slightly above avrage are we talking about women irl or women online that have followings

[Asker]

irl. don't need or want popular women with large followings

[DishLady]

A sincerely respectful fellow with a nice smile and the three “S” —> Sweet, smart and self-assured. That’s the winning combo. (On the more pragmatic side “employed” is usually on a lady’s Top 10 list as well.)

[normalice]

Probably the ability to navigate the civilized world.

[Asker]

good. I can navigate in the civilized and uncivilized.

[Anonymous]

1. A guy who's on par with her social status or greater

2. He needs to make enough to afford what she sees as a comfortable life (sometimes this includes superfluous things like Netflix or professional landscaping 🙄). Some contribute to this income, some work.

3. He needs to be able to navigate her shortcomings in communication

4. He needs to do random acts of love to boost her ego.

[Flatmanlewis]

“Navigate her shortcomings in communication.” Man - that’s good.

[Amel2333]

I think most women want an honest guy who isn't nice but very kind though and with a big heart caring loyal protective strong who isn't afaid to speak up for what at is right manly and who appreciates and loves her

[bobby_bush_eater]

I like that distinction between nice and kind. That's very important at least in initial attraction and early stages of dating

[HawkPerception]

An honest guy who isn't nice but very kind... 😂😂😂

[Starrrboy]

A guy who's fun to be around and knows how to f! ck until she gets used to him and then move on to another fun guy lol.. relationships are outdated , it's situationships now 😌..

[laly520]

its simple for me
a decent guy who would treat me well
gladly found him

[Anonymous]

6 foot tall
6 inches in the sack
6 figures in annual income
6 pack and accompanying muscle
A car
A million in savings
A paid off house

[Anonymous]

From what I've seen

Big dick, over 6 feet tall, big dick. Big income , big dick, willing to do ALL the house work, big dick, hot face , big dick, hot muscular body, big dick, willing to spoil them on a daily basis, big dick

Oh and they want him to have a big dick

[Nikki1989]

Ha! And you are single, right?

Figures!

[Opinion Owner]

@Nikki1989 🤣🤣

[Nikki1989]

Read what bitter trolls post on here and think the opposite, and might be get halfway there to understanding. God knows if most of the bitter trolls will never understand anything.

[Peridot25]

Single
I just want to stay single until my last day on Earth

[whistlingwh0res]

I think all they want is party, hook up and sell sex

[Tyler2]

Couldn't have hit it closer than that. And that's among the many reasons why I like country gals.

[Tyler2]

I'm from the U. S. A. so country gals here is VASTLY different than other countries' country gals. (I'd assume)

[mayurr]

Money.

[Nikki1989]

Cheer up, you might get a job one day.

[mayurr]

I already have one.