Because of the fact she’s so conditioned to the dysfunctional relationship that when he starts treating her good it’s boring or not up to her standards
No because it is baggage right from the beginning. Besides is she the type of woman that purposely went for the 'bad' guy despite warnings, especially where he had a history of violence. It is a case of people who play with fire get burnt.
She is probably toxic herself and will most likely cheat on the good guy, and be unreliable as a partner. What if she decides to go back to the abusive guy like so many do particularly if like you say she finds it boring.
Being a good guy does not mean being a pushover by the way.
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Not really sure how you would bring that up in a conversation during a date.
’So Debbie, could you tell me if in any of your previous relationships , have you been abused by your partner”
as you go down the checklist
Yes, men and women with minimal damage should not get with someone who is severely damaged. In the end, they will only take some of that damage for themselves and then have to settle for someone lesser later on because of it.
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If I care about someone then I make allowances for anything they have been through previously. If she were a victim of abuse would be something we would work through together!
It's stupid to take on unnecessary baggage.
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