I like a guy but we can never be together, how can I move on?

[Anonymous]

I like my coworker however he is 21 and i am 25 so already we are on different maturity levels. He also is not attracted to me, and we have a new girl who everyone thinks will look cute with him and although they won’t ever date because of religious differences i still find myself jealous. But most importantly i can never be with him as he is like a younger brother basically… i need to move on but i can’t control my feelings at all. Please help me👀

[OlderAndWiser]

Why do you want to control your feelings? What else is love but feelings?
I am 69 and my wife is 60; the age difference presents very few issues for us.


If you were to date this guy, he might surprise you with his level of maturity. On the other hand, if you dated him, the magic may disappear, you no longer feel attracted, and problem solved.
I say, “Go for it!”

[Anonymous]

If you can't distance yourself from him, you can try some mental games on yourself.

Try this one, fantasize sexually about him, but make it the worst sexual experience possible. Take your time and be explicit. He's small, keeps falling out, awkward motions, bad hygiene, then he premies, cries, apologizes and runs out the door. Something like that. Lmao I don't know, it's worth a shot.

[Asker]

You lowkey cooked😂 that should make me turned off fr thank you

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao nice 🍻

[Danny_dan92]

By moving on

[Asker]

How what are the steps😭

[Danny_dan92]

Get some sleep + time + new boy

[Danny_dan92]

That formula will help you

[Asker]

Thanks

[Danny_dan92]

Yes. This should work. Good luck