As A Man, Can You Accept The Following Sentence?

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“Even women have a list of guys they'd bed but never date, because they understand they can't every person they're attracted to? There are more factors at play, and romantic and sexual attraction aren't the same”

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

I mean it's simply not true. Could be true to many or some but the statement is not true as that does not apply to everyone.
I bet there are girls who would only sleep with a guy they would date, and how would I know because if I can think like that so can anyone else.

morganherrel · Accepted Answer

Romantic and sexual attraction, as ideas, do not perfectly overlap. Yes, that is correct. Not everyone is demisexual.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

Depends on the person. Some people are demisexual for instance. But there are lots of women who absolutely can separate sex from love. Sex is also tied to lust. Sex is physical pleasure at the end of the day. You can get sexual pleasure without being in love.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Not a man but this is probably true for most women

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

I don't have that list... Sexual attraction and romantic attraction are difficult for me to separate. I'd struggle to have a one-night stand, because I associate sex with love (even though it often has nothing to do with love). I know it's possible to have that level of detachment, but in that area I haven't detached. If I am with someone sexually, I'm heart and soul into it. This isn't a criticism of anyone; I know everyone has different perspectives. It's just my personal feeling.

AviatorTom · Answer

I'm not sure it's every woman but I'm sure many women have a list of men they might have had sex with, or wouldn't mind having sex with, but for whatever reason, didn't.

Account · Answer

As a woman I am unable to relate.

rachel776 · Answer

Since high school I've had a list of guys I know I could have sex with if I wanted to. Mostly I didn't but there's always guys I know I could if I wanted to. I would expect that same idea works the other way around where guys have a list of girls, but I would think they do have sex with more of them than I would have sex with guys.

RebelinSteel · Answer

I think that’s probably equal for guys n girls. The main thing being a lot of guys would go for any girl as long as sex was available, whereas girls are going to be more fussy. The one you missed out from the romantic and sexual attraction is emotional attraction, that does come into play as well.

NathanDavis · Answer

what's there for me to "accept"? people make their choices, I make mine, that's it... gender not relevant either, lol

MicahRaine · Answer

I can't accept that because I'm smart enough to know that not "every wom (a) n" is the same.

BeetleBro2000 · Answer

Not all women, but most, yes. I understand women generally also have sex drives and intelligence enough to not always act on those drives.

DrPepper12 · Answer

I guess so but everybody has a hall pass list. No news there.

normalice · Answer

Accept? It is all men's desire to be on this list for as many women as possible.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Accept the statement? Yes. Accept her? No. Because I don't think anyone should do that, man or woman. I wouldn't want to know either person.

Bricealan · Answer

I agree. Hard to deny that.

Grond21 · Answer

As a universal statement about women? No, it's incorrect

shortster · Answer

Yes, what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I never had such a list. I wouldn’t sleep with a guy I don’t completely like

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Yeah... sounds reasonable.

MrGSpotHer · Answer

No some people don't even want to be with anyone

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Sure, except that there's a word missing.

Fireguy17 · Answer

that probably has some truth to it.

jahaims · Answer

Duh.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Sure do .

Walksbehindtherows · Answer

I don't think so

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