Would you date or marry a single mom?

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V_Injector · Accepted Answer

There would have to be a good reason to. Out the gate, I would question why she is a single Mom? I did glance down and know this is in fact a reality for you asker. So, first I would ask why are you a single Mom?

See, the answer to that would have a lot of potential deficits and not much to gain that I couldn't gain from another woman who hasn't pumped out a kid already. Understand that I'm not trying to sound mean or cruel by saying that... it's just facts. So with all that said... I'd have lots of questions.

You still romantically interested in the father? He giving you money for this child or you expect me to pick up the tab? There's a lot to consider here because I don't think a dude fantasizes about having to raise another man's baby when he's a teenager. I mean did you? When you were younger did you flick the bean dreaming about a hawt single Dad plopping some other woman's child in your lap and leaving for work... or working all day to buy his kid food while he sat at home with that other woman's kid that's just your responsibility now because his dick is worth it? Be honest because I highly doubt you've ever flicked the bean thinking about how great that would be in any of those scenarios. With that said... that should shine some sunlight on why (especially a lot of the dude's) having not fantasized about how great it would be to get with a single Mom.

I hope the best for you and hope you can trap some guy for yourself... But I hope you recognize the gravity of just getting pregnant by some guy that wasn't going to be with you long term. I mean you just let that guy drop a baby off in your pussy... now your online wondering why not every guy thinks that's the best thing ever. I'm just saying learn that lesson and don't just keep doing that as you move forward.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes , just because I am a single Dad as well , well kind of lol. but when I was younger with no kids , I wouldn’t date them , because I wanted a girl that had no kids as well. So now that I am older and my kids are older , I am open to dating any girl to be honest , as long as her and I have great chemistry and connection and we both are attracted not each other , that’s all that matters and as long as she doesn’t expect me to support her child , I will help her out but I won’t be 100 percent responsible for her kid , especially if the father is still in the picture. when I date single Mom’s I prefer her not to introduce me to her kids ‘ right away , cuz I do the same thing. I won’t introduce my kids to any girl until I feel she is really in it for the long haul and not the short haul. Single parents’ need to realize their kids can get attached to their new partner and then all of a sudden that new partner changes their mind and no longer wants to be in the picture anymore. So not only are you upset and hurt , your kids can be hurt and upset as well. Why single parents should not introduce their kids right away

MemeSupreme · Accepted Answer

no but i'll date yours

Summeroflove · Answer

Okay, for me personally it depends, every situation is different. There are women who are basically whores get knocked up now they want a man to marry them not for a genuine connection. But so that she can have a more stable income, have a more fatherly figure, not raise the kid alone, etc. I feel bad for her kid but that woman’s wanting to use someone.

Okay another situation is let’s say a woman was married but her husband was amazing at first but he cheated, abused her, or even filed for divorce because he didn’t want kids. That’s not her fault and she does deserve to find someone better.

Another situation is kind of the opposite she cheated, was abusive, or Whatever so that caused the divorce. Ehhh…. I imagine she would do the same thing to me in a nanosecond.

Another situation she was raped that again isn’t her fault and she deserves to find someone whose both a good husband as well as a father.

Another possible scenario is that okay she did something stupid and slept with someone she shouldn’t have. But she realizes her bad choices and is being accountable. She is doing what she needs to do to take care of her baby as well as making better decisions. That’s a case by case situation on how far it would go with her. But it depends.

At the end of the day being with a single mom long term isn’t for every man. It doesn’t make him a bad man, it may mean he isn’t ready to take on that responsibility as a step father. Maybe he isn’t ready for kids, maybe doesn't want kids, or maybe he does but he doesn’t feel comfortable with kids that aren’t his. As long as he’s respectful it’s not him rejecting you as a human being it’s just not meant to be.

Avicenna · Answer

Not under any circumstances, no.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

We're running a library here lol, so let's reunite:

RebelinSteel · Answer

It’s really down to the person and how she is, I’m not too worried if she has kids. It is the context around how it all works, also I think numbers would come into it, 1, 2 is likely okay, more then not so much. It’s really down to the person though, I would prefer without, however if I met someone I gelled with, we really clicked, then it would likely not be an issue.

Drewtate · Answer

Largely depends on the woman. Why she's a single mom, how her last relationship ended, can she be loyal, age of her and the kid, possibly of our own kids, relationship with her ex.

Eight_Ball · Answer

Well at my age they're all mothers by now, so yes. And I don't subscribe to social media's vast demonization of certain people like single mothers.

exitseven · Answer

Maybe if the kids were older, like high school age.

paledreams · Answer

No sorry. And I don't have to make any unmanly. comment about new car used car lol car 🚗🚨🙀

Patman97 · Answer

I would yes, and hopefully she'll want to have kids with me

OtterMan68 · Answer

date yes marry no, but I would not marry anyone. been there, done that.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Date, possibly. I wouldn't marry under current laws.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

PREFER NOT TO... BUT GOOD LUCK FINDING A BITCH WITHOUT A KID ANYMORE

SeekerOfTruth007 · Answer

No, I don't date whores.

dean53AU · Answer

I've dated single mums

Eleni06 · Answer

I dated and slept with single mom’s.

MrZameer · Answer

I may date her, but won't marry at all

StevenMcGarrett · Answer

I'm not raising another man's child.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

only if the kid is older than 18 and has moved out

Jackson2005 · Answer

Uh yeah sure I probably would

Anonymous · Answer

It wouldn't be my first choice.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm sorry but it doesn't happen

seviyorummm · Answer

yes veriy nice

dudeinohio · Answer

Sure

jahaims · Answer

Nope

Dongie · Answer

Yep.

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