Is it ok if my boyfriend hasn't included me in his birthday plans, and he has in mind plans with his boys?

[vanss37]

[Chevy1_kb]

If there's no more girls then I suppose he just wants a guys night birthday I've spent time with my ex and his pals in his house having a drink it's ok sometimes but I hung out with guys when I was younger and girls you learn some of it from hanging out with guys it's ok sometimes if it all guys but guys do like there own boy time to talk what they talk about or do there own stuff with there guy pals just like girls need there girl time with there women friends to do what they do and talk about if it a guys night I suggest it's ok if your not invited they do need there guy space like we need our women space on a night out but he mite do something with you also at a separate time for his birthday if there other girls invited but not you its not really fare but if there's no other girls just be kl just both of you plan a special night out for his birthday

[Japangirly]

You need to check if those “boys” are actually boys 😬

[lightbulb27]

that is ok, but he should make plans with you or you make plans for you both. It's ok to just want to spend time with guys, as long as no girls there.

He may not quite be to the point he thinks of you two as an "us". that is a mental shift, he still thiinks of it as you and him.

[molonski2]

At age around 23- 25 .. Would you include him in your celebrations? I think the answer is YES , so honestly if you are a genuine girlfriend , I think he is being incredibly selfish , self centred , and probably dishonest..

Nasty to the extreme , confront him vigorously.