(As always, I am disappointed.) Why do we?

[Anonymous]

Why do we invest so much time and effort in those who don't reciprocate? We know they don't value us, so why do we do it to ourselves? Yes, again, I am disappointed in myself. 😢

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man don't be so hard on yourself sis! We all fall for people who don't always treat us right, it's part of life. And it's easy to wanna keep tryna make something work when you care about someone, even if they're not givin' the same energy back.

But you gotta remember that you're awesome and you deserve to be with someone who sees that! Don't waste your time feelin' down over someone who's not worth it. Now you know they weren't the right one so you can move on to better things. Keep your head up - I'm sure there's tons of cute guys who'd be lucky to have a catch like you!

Maybe take some time to do stuff you love and hang with your girls. That always cheers me up when I'm feelin' bummed. You'll bounce back in no time, just try not to overthink it too much. I know it's hard, but stay positive - your prince is out there somewhere!

[Asker]

Thank you so much. 🫶🏽

[Oliverlogan263]

You're very welcome!

It makes me sad to hear you feeling disappointed, but I'm glad we could talk it out a little. Just know you always have people in your corner rooting for you, even if that person didn't work out.

And yeah, don't be afraid to care - just save it for someone deserving next time! Now go treat yourself to something you like, whether that's your favorite food, a movie, or whatever cheers you up. You deserve it after pouring your energy into that situation. Feel free to hit me up if you ever need someone to listen again too!

[Asker]

I appreciate you. 😊

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww, thanks so much! I'm really glad we could chat about this. It always makes me feel better to vent to another girl who gets it, you know? We gotta stick together and lift each other up. You seem really sweet - don't be so hard on yourself, okay? You deserve all the good things. I'm always here if you need someone to talk to or hype you up! Keep shining bright 😁

[Asker]

Thank you, sweetheart; it’s appreciated. 😊

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re very welcome Gorgeous and I appreciate you heavenly ❤️🌹🌹

[Asker]

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[Oliverlogan263]

Awww you’re too sweet boo 🥰🥰🥰 before you light a spark in my heart like you sent me ❤️ come on baby light my fire 🔥

[Asker]

You're too kind. Lol, thank you, sweetheart. 😙

[Oliverlogan263]

And you’re too divine along with your sweet femininity and unmatched beauty that is so unique, it’ll make Mother Nature jealous 🥰🥰 my pleasure sugah 🥰🥰🌹🌹🌹🌹

[Asker]

Such a romantic. 💕

[Oliverlogan263]

I can be a little smooth talker but my main aim is knocking off my feet with the way of admiring the sight i behold when I glance into her eyes and feel she is heaven when I hold in grace of her hand while I stare deeply into your eyes reach towards her soul inside to penetrate the feeling she would never thought of what it could ever exist so beautiful. And baby you’re just as sweet and romantic for the way you are devastating beauty and gift from god for I’d wish to make you feel so special the way a woman of your purest form should experience baby to personally knock you off your feet and heart pound fast in the way I’d take you by your hand and seduce you right on the spot of the dot of this hour to fall into my arms where I’d catch you in the safety of where you could feel safe and cared for 🥰🥰😊😏

[Asker]

This was beautifully written. 💋

[Oliverlogan263]

Why thank you ☺️ I try but you’re the most high as in beautiful creation that’s ever blessed this sinful world we live to be comprised in a package to be unique and precious ever 😍😍

[9in_Serpent]

We live in a crazy world and wonder why do we and everyone around us act so crazy? There is nothing wrong with trying to connect with a human being the only thing that wrong is that it costs us so much to try to do such a simple natural thing as connecting with another human being its within our nature but society punishes us. What end us happening is a damaged human being tries to connect with another damaged human being and it ends up in more damage…

[jojouzumaki]

It make total sense that you’d feel that way. I believe, it’s all about our intentions, making an effort and investing time to someone is our way to “try”. And is it isn’t reciprocated, it’s time to redirect your focus to your personal growth.

[Nikki1989]

People with low self-esteem usually believe that they don't deserve better and may settle for a relationship that is not fulfilling.

[Asker]

I kept getting a sinking feeling that they didn't actually want me around, but why couldn't they just be honest? All I wanted was honesty; it sucks.

[Intheclouds00]

Becaus you are an empath