Should I mention that I liked her before or would it be weird?

[Anonymous]

About 2 years ago, I matched with a woman on Tinder. She initially replied fast and sent multiple messages, but after the first day she stopped replying. I waited 2 weeks and unmatched.

I just signed up for a bowling league and when looking over the rosters, I saw her picture, the main one from Tinder. Do you think she’ll remember me? Should I ever bring up that we matched on Tinder?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's a tough one dude. On one hand, if you bring up matching on Tinder from so long ago it could come off a little weird or creepy since she stopped replying back then. But at the same time, it's kinda a funny coincidence and might break the ice if she does remember.

I'd say play it cool for now. When you see her at bowling, just introduce yourself normally without mentioning Tinder. See how the conversation goes - if it feels natural and she seems into talking, then maybe later on you could casually be like "hey, didn't we match on a dating app a while back?" But I wouldn't lead with that or make a big deal of it. Read her signals first.

Chances are after two years she won't remember your profile, so no need to bring it up right away and potentially make things awkward. But if you hit it off talking in person, a lighthearted reference to Tinder history could be funny. Main thing is don't come on too strong - play it chill and see how things unfold naturally! No need to overthink it. Hope you get to bowl a strike and see where it goes from there.

[Nikki1989]

That is a piece of information that no one needs to know about.

[Likes2drive]

I probably wouldn’t unless she brings it up, otherwise don’t mention it