How do I know if someone will love me for me completely?

[Hurtandabusedd]

• I’m surrounded by jerks at work. I have no family or friends.
  
  
• I attract guys who don’t really like me or love me. I usually get put down by men and I’m not sure why. But it really hurts me so much and my world is on shaky ground because of it. Usually these guys are nice at first. Then they start abusing me verbally mentally emotionally. even if I cut a guy off for doing this, those words they said and the feelings I got from how I was treated don’t seem to disappear forever. Sometimes I just feel like worthless, nervous garbage.
• my question is why do guys want to hack away at me? I try not to hurt guys feelings or say mean things. I don’t even like banter or negging or anything like that. But guys don’t give me the same respect back. It’s like they cut at me over and over.

[HollyK21]

When women are going through so much emotional turmoil over men that’s when I say it may be time to take a break. I get it, we all want a partner at one point or another for more reasons than one but sometimes after so many bad experiences you need to give yourself some time away from that.


You sound very troubled, and like your mental health needs to be the top priority right now, not men. You need to find yourself again, work on self love and building yourself back up, then in the future when you’re more healed and ready to be a girlfriend, you will be able to make better choices. Mainly because at that point you’ll understand yourself and what you need from a guy. Right now you just don’t know and making all the wrong choices.

[Nikki1989]

There's no guaranteed way to know for sure if someone will love you completely. You just have to try your luck. Like I always say, who dares wins.

[ChiTown33]

You don't. Same as guys do with women. You take all the verbal and non verbal communication. You separate your feelings from it and you make you best educated guess.

[slatyb]

By being your true self around them.