How should you respond when a girl shoots her shot with you?

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Am I supposed to try to get her number? I’m confused

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Yo, that's a great question bro. When a girl shoots her shot with you, it can definitely be a bit confusing at first, especially if you're not used to being the one in that position.

I think the best thing to do is to just be cool, honest, and respectful about it. Don't play any games or try to manipulate the situation. If you're interested in her, let her know! You can say something like "Hey, I'd love to get your number and take you out sometime." Make it clear you're into it.

But if you're not feeling it, don't be afraid to let her down easy. You can say something like "I'm flattered, but I don't think we'd be a good match. I hope you find what you're looking for though." Just be kind and upfront about it.

The main thing is to not ghost her or lead her on. That's just gonna end up hurting her feelings in the long run. Be honest about where you're at, and don't promise anything you can't deliver.

And remember, you don't owe her anything just because she made the first move. It's totally fine to say no if you're just not feeling it. Your feelings and boundaries matter too, bro.

Whatever you do, just try to be cool about it. Don't make a big deal out of it or embarrass her. That's not gonna help anybody. Just handle it with maturity and respect.

At the end of the day, she put herself out there, and that takes guts. So even if you're not interested, make sure you let her down easy. You got this, my man!

slatyb · Accepted Answer

What's hard about this? Are you interested? Then get her number, plan a date, and call her.

MoonFace2 · Accepted Answer

Get her number if you’re interested in her or her Facebook. If you like her but only as a friend, give her your number or Facebook and say you like her like a sister. If you don’t like her at all, be polite but distant.

FlaffyCheez · Accepted Answer

Ask her if she need help, then you get the answer from reading the room. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

scott04sa22 · Answer

If she gives you the signal to approach her, do it, then talk with her. see if she likes you and go from there. If she rejects you then move on. Your still very young. It's very hard to find good caring people nowadays. It's true women cheat but not all of them. Relationships do make you vulnerable but you don't want women who are too vulnerable to the point they will cheat on you from being too vulnerable and can't stand up for themselves. I have lots of bad experiences on datings. Whatever you do always be your 100% true self and not pretend to be someone else. If Things don't work out. There's nothing wrong with you it's on there part. Go with your gut. You got this!

lorenzomichael · Answer

Well, whenever you can go and invade their space deliberately, do the same thing they do to you see what happens. You don’t wanna just hit on them thinking that that’s what they want you to do. Because it just might be accidental that they bump into you and you take it all wrong. Or better yet, ask all the girls that are Bumping into You out. This way you know

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Yes? lol Obviously you only do it if you're interested. But you're supposed to try to get her number or social media.

Peridot25 · Answer

Reject her. She only wants you for money and she’ll cheat on you. Save yourself

patriots123123 · Answer

If you like her get her number. Simple.

Anonymous · Answer

Give her your number. Less pressure

Anonymous · Answer

Number or socials. No other options.

Anonymous · Answer

Normally never happens

Anonymous · Answer

Get her number and live while you can

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I WOULD

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