Guys, How do you feel about a girl shooting their shot?

[Anonymous]

if a woman shoots her shot with you would you see it as desperate? Do you prefer to be the one to shoot your shot?

I wish more girls would do it

I dont like it, seems desperate

[NathanDavis]

I saw her as my future girlfriend... three times

but, at other times... I very kindly informed them that I didn't feel that same way, or that I already had a girlfriend

never, not once I ever thought of "desperate"

[abc3643]

What does that even mean? "girl shooting their shot"?

[NathanDavis]

"making the first move"

approaching a guy...

[abc3643]

@NathanDavis Then YTF doesn't she say that?

[NathanDavis]

because that's how most people use expressions, slangs, and terms...

[abc3643]

@NathanDavis You know, you should write for history so people will know what you said 500 years from now.

[NathanDavis]

if I did that... people will end up believing that rabid wookiees existed for real...

[Anonymous]

Do you see it as a guy doing it as desperate? Why woulda guy see it as desperate then? But same rules applies as women. If a guy is not interested just like some women are not interested you might get rejected. And don't take it personal. It's still flattering that you'd ask.

[spartan55]

Girls are so retarded about appearing desperate.
Remember this: it is NEVER desperate to let someone know you are interested.

[stratford]

In modern society, it still amazes me that it seems expected that the guy always has to make the first move.

[spartan55]

@stratford
Women are terrified of even the chance of rejection. I'm beginning to think it's a convenient protection for them to claim men have to initiate.

[stratford]

@spartan55 it's double standards in modern society, but the difference is that a guy's drive to have sex is often more powerful that his fear of rejection.

[Pohjolan]

Its pretty rare so it would be at least novel. Though some girls consider just flirting to be shooting a shot.

[jahaims]

It's the same as a guy shooting his shot. Nothing desperate about it.

[JacobJordan]

Do what you gotta do to get love

[FunkyMonkee]

I have no idea what that means.

[dudeinohio]

Not desperate at all.

[ThrillSeeker01]

No, I love straight talk.

[Joker_]

great