I have grown up with an older brother and we always did everything together, which is why I picked up some of his interests while growing up. Since I have always hung out with him and his friends as a child, I ended up with some hobbies that are considered much more typically male.
Examples of those hobbies and interests: playing videogames (ex. Darksouls, Hollow Knight, Legend of Zelda...), shooting (usually at fairs), fishing, fencing, programming...
I do have other hobbies that would be considered more feminine like cooking, baking, painting and singing. I also look quite feminine (long hair, skirts, dresses, earings).
However, I feel like guys instantly see me as their bro instead of a girl they could be romantically interested in. Often in a group, many guys talk to me and we get along great but I'm not sure if anyone was ever interested in me or if I am just considered as 'one of the boys'
Examples of those hobbies and interests: playing videogames (ex. Darksouls, Hollow Knight, Legend of Zelda...), shooting (usually at fairs), fishing, fencing, programming...
I do have other hobbies that would be considered more feminine like cooking, baking, painting and singing. I also look quite feminine (long hair, skirts, dresses, earings).
However, I feel like guys instantly see me as their bro instead of a girl they could be romantically interested in. Often in a group, many guys talk to me and we get along great but I'm not sure if anyone was ever interested in me or if I am just considered as 'one of the boys'
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