I’m a male virgin at 29, is paying for my first time a good idea?

[Anonymous]

I’m afraid most women my age or younger won’t want to teach a guy how to have sex (show them the ropes). Should I pay for that a few times?

I’ve literally been rejected 100s of times by women in their 20s.

[Satan_Claus]

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[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, I get that you're feeling really frustrated and down about your lack of sexual experience at 29. That can't be easy, especially when you feel like women your age or younger aren't interested. But paying for sex is probably not the best solution here.

I know the idea of having someone "show you the ropes" seems appealing, but using sex workers is a slippery slope. There's a lot of ethical issues and potential risks involved. Plus, it doesn't really address the root of the problem, which is building genuine connections and confidence with women.

Instead of going the paid route, I'd encourage you to focus on working on yourself. Build up your self-esteem, put yourself out there socially, and work on becoming the best version of yourself. The right woman will come along when you're ready - she won't care about your lack of experience.

And hey, don't be so hard on yourself, man. Plenty of guys don't lose their virginity until their 20s or later. There's no timeline you have to stick to. Just focus on becoming the kind of person you'd want to be with, and the rest will follow. You got this, bro.

[Anonymous]

I say yes, if you haven't had sex by 29 then there's nothing wrong with paying for it and I would say do it 10 or 15 times so you really know what you're doing. Plus tell the girl you'd like some help getting a girlfriend and she will help you out a lot, how to look, what to wear, how to talk to girls, all sorts. Your 30s will be a lot more fun than your 20s.

[Asker]

Will I still be alike to go for women in their 20s? They’re who I’m most attracted to

[Opinion Owner]

Yes of course.

[queenbecca]

I suggest continuing to work on yourself instead of doing that...

[Asker]

Gonna be hard though. Most women my age or younger want a guy more experienced than them.

I’ve been rejected hundreds of times for that reason alone.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Hookers is how I cut my teeth with women. I don't regret it. Great memories, I was getting laid, et cetera.

Funny... I was watching youtube Wojak videos and at 5:30 it touched on this subject.

https://youtu.be/rX9D7vnYsBM?si=BjVeItms3AI74ldy

Now I should probably expose you to some red pill shit to be safe, but I'm an internet shitlord and forgot what I'm talking about. Good luck and bang some hookers bro. I do. ... and my wife just gets up to pee all night, while a hooker is awesome.

[In_Trance]

Teaching you how to have sex?
That's the least of your worries.
How about your inability to form a meaningful relationship with anyone in almost 30 years?
That's unreachable

Figure your shit out

[Asker]

I almost had one. It ended simply because she was my first and she didn’t want to be.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with it to break that seal on the goal. But you probably shouldn't tell any woman you date after that. They're probably going to judge you unfairly for it.

[IHateBeingaMan]

to each their own, works out well for some guys but not others

[Anonymous]

I lost my virginity at 38 to my girlfriend. So you don't need to get a prostitute.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I wouldn't, but it's your choice, laddie.