If a girl never writes to me first does that mean she is not interested?

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Am i wasting my time? All girls never write to me first.

naartjie · Accepted Answer

Tough topic since there’s so many explanations
• Could be traditional and like a man to text first
• you could just be a backup
• if she takes long to reply, she could possibly just not want to seem desperate so waits a bit
• if she takes long to reply, she could possibly not be interested
• you could just be a confidence boost when she does text

If someone is taking 4+ hours and can’t respond (this is talking about people who are meant to be into each other, especially in beginning stages)
Then yes it’s a red flag because most people nowadays are glued to their phone.
And don’t give me the “we’re at work and can’t text” cause I’ve had a guy that did logging and he was so into me and texting me while working so if someone can’t send one message to say they’ll be busy and will only talk later, then yeah, ditch them.

We’re all adults and communication isn’t hard🤗

itsannalee · Accepted Answer

If she is fast response when you text her, she is just waiting for you to text her.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well that's why you just keep doing it until somebody does write to you because when they write to you first that means they like you that means they're into you so accept that these other girls don't write to you first because they're not into you the way that you would like them to be and that's okay

They're saving you a heartache is what it is they're being friendly and you just don't know it they're being straight up and you're taking the wrong way don't take it the wrong way accept it and move on to another one it'll all come together one day

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

It does depend I would ask her directly. Some people though aren’t interested or are one sided. If you’re finding yourself contacting first, planning all the dates, paying for everything, doing all the work and getting little to none in return. You have to ask yourself what you’re gaining out of this and if this relationship continues that it will continue to be that way.

Reach out and ask her. Some people are just worried they will pester or annoy someone. But if someone isn’t showing effort they aren’t worth it truthfully.

Zack-Bann · Answer

If you created a dynamic of you constantly writing first she made it part of her routine and now expects it.

But it’s something you can mention to her just to see what she thinks of it.

Just make sure not to sound needy when you do

Abbycado · Answer

Writes what? Texts? Emails?

jahaims · Answer

She only talks to you for attention

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