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Long story short, she's single, I'm single. She's into me, and I'm into her. Recently, she took an interest in an activity I enjoy. She's horrible at it, but we seem to connect over it.
She's also cute, and I'd like to date her, but I'm committed to my life to the point that solitude is my best friend.
I'm going back to university for another postgraduate course, and given my experience with the previous one, I know I won't be able to balance a relationship and my studies.
I don't want to be selfish, but I also want to tell her I like her, even though I won't have time for a relationship. Things are moving quickly, and I don't know what to do.
And if I tell her, I'm pretty sure she'll be my first official girlfriend.
She's also a graduate intern at my workplace and I don't like to mix work with pleasure. But...
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Do it. She’ll appreciate that your aren’t using her as a time-pass and she’ll have more respect for you. Honestly, if she walks away after you tell her, she’d probably walk away after you’ve started school and don’t have much time for her. That would leave you both more hurt.
Yes, it's better than starting something and then pulling back. Unfortunately, having the tougher conversation now is better than risking hurt feelings.
Other possibility is that you guys will be a little more than friends and then once your school is done, go into a proper relationship. It depends on the girl, but based on her being a grad intern, she probably understands the importance of edu and your priorities. So if you tell her how much you really like her, you have a solid shot
I'm not sure i understand the point of telling someone you are into them but have no interest in dating them right now. That just comes off as confusing.
At best, it gives her a false hope that there could have been something and she ends up waiting for something that may never happen.
If you don't have time for her how is it shooting your shot?
That's a tough one.
I think he just meant being honest upfront with the risk of loosing her lol
@Superticklighgirl couldn't have summed it up better myself🤣