My boyfriend stopped having sex with me. I have initiated it and he has rejected me. He refuses to talk to me about it. What should I do?

[Pchappiness]

[ohsheeT]

I'm not really for sure I'm understanding what you're saying so you have acknowledged it and he still won't talk to you about it right I mean is that what you're saying

[incorrected]

There can be all kinds of reasons for this. He could be having erectile dysfunction issues if he's about your age. You could have put on a lot of weight and he's lost attraction. He could be depressed. His libido might not be what it once was. He could be cheating. There's really no way to know if he refuses to talk about it. How long has it been going on and what other information do you have to work with? When you try to discuss it, how do you approach it?

[Cormac995]

Confront him about it and ask if he's cheating on you. Watch his face when you ask closely, and you'll know. When you and your partner have been sexually active and then suddenly stop its one of two things. 1. He's in a really super dark depressed place. 2. He's cheating. 3. He has some kind of "Embarrassing" injury but that's very unlikely. I'm sorry but being honest my money is on him cheating. I hope everything turns out well for you.

[bowenw]

Tell him you need to discuss it regardless of how embarrassed he may be. Ask him questions like is there something physically wrong with him that he should see a doctor about, or does he not find you attractive.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Be honest, tell him you don’t want to be in a sexless relationship and you don’t want to be with him if that’s what’s going to happen

[Flower7]

He’s probably cheating. You shouldn’t stay with someone who has lost interest.

[jahaims]

Tell him if he isn't mature enough to communicate then he isn't mature enough for a healthy relationship.

[Anonymous]

Well, no sex is a bad sign for the relationship but no communication is 100% nail in the coffin

[Anonymous]

refusing to have the discussion is pretty immature of him, perhaps that relationship has run its course

[In_Trance]

If he won't talk about it, there's nothing further you can do

[Benlovegs]

Honestly move on

[Yohenis]

Getting it somewhere else

[MasterKS]

there are enough dicks in the world.