I have been dating this guy for 2 months going on 3 and I didn't like how our last date went and I brought it up that something made me uncomfortable?

[Anonymous]

How do I respond to this?

Its overheating the circuits
can't let the brain malfunction
And there is still so much to do
A break is needed
I am grateful
Feel free to express yourself in any way or none at all I have observed enough to understand

[Flower7]

Sounds like both of you are unhappy with how things are going so best to go your separate ways.

[Asker]

Im not unhappy i made it clear to him i had a great time, I just felt uncomfortable during that date we had

[Flower7]

Why uncomfortable?

[Asker]

He was acting stuck up when we went out to eat, when he would talk I had to be attentive but when I spoke he disconnected and looked somewhere else. Maybe it's his adhd but I couldn't pick the food I wanted and he was doing multiple things to pick at me. Even told me I get triggered so easily followed by saying are you good? In a nasty attitude and I was like yes I'm just a bit tired. I don't know i realized he's a narcissist and I almost gotten stuck in a loop 😅

[Nerdvana]

Have you had sex already?

[Asker]

Yeah we have

[Nerdvana]

Then I think he is trying to tell you, he is ready to move on to someone else.

[Asker]

Oh okay, what makes you think so?

[Nerdvana]

He's not talking like a grown man. As well in his response, he said a break is needed.

[Asker]

Yeah you are right I guess out of shock I over looked that, thank you for your response.

[Nerdvana]

I am really sorry, I know people can be horrible. I have been there. I once was trying to date this girl. She was a single mom. She needed a car for work. I paid $1200 to get her car fixed so she can go to work and take you son to school. She was behind in her rent. I offered to help catch her up so they wouldn't kick her and her son out. We never had sex. She said she wanted to wait, because sex always ruined relationships. I found out she started sleeping with her ex. The one who missed up the car and took the money and didn't pay the rent. She also had hooked up with a different guy she met at work. Believe me I know the pain, shock and embarrassment of being used.

[Asker]

Right now I'm just eating my feelings I'm looking for answers but he will not respond , only option is to move on i guess. I don't want to cry but I don't know I guess I allowed this to happen. He's avoided me before after talking to me in a way I wasn't okay with and we talked about it. He said he was scared , that the connection was too good. And he was afraid of the outcome not being good. Than this time we go out it's like I was dating a new person and I didn't like it and for that I get punished. This sucks also im sorry you went through that I hope that you are happy single or with someone who doesn't take advantage of you

[LunarEclipse433]

Don’t really understand the question

[Asker]

I told him how our date made me uncomfortable and his response is at the bottom