Is it bad to have a hookup at 27?

[Sugar100]

I did at one point believe to have sex til marriage, but since I have bad luck & never had a serious boyfriend for 27 years, I ended up giving up on that belief. However the first guy I met at 18 either way ruined this belief as I thought he was the one but no he was a fuckboy that used me for sex & dates & never met families for 7 years. I thought a serious boyfriend was a guy that dated u for many years even without meeting family & I was wrong. Also he was never my boyfriend he called himself single once& it hurt me.

When I left him at 25, I fell in love for a guy at job but we ended up never being together as he got fired & cudnt exhange numbers. I had my first hookup at 26, & was a guy that looked identical to him even acted like him. Which was y I met him. I don’t regret it as it kinda fullfilled my Desiré hav sex with my crush at job even tho it wasn’t the real him.

now I’m 27 & still have no boyfriend, & I encountered another guy I really like that wants hookup. And he’s really hot & I want check off my bucket list of having sex with a super hot guy before I settle down. As by the looks of it , I won’t be married anytime soon as I’m almost 30 & can’t get a boyfriend that loves me yet. I doubt I’ll be married at 28,29,30.
I prob even think I’ll end up living with a guy & hav a baddy daddy that’s serious but no husband in my future which is better than nothing.

[VyacheslavSokolov]

It depends why the person is hooking up. In your case you were trying to have a serious relationship and it did not work initially, so most guys would be understanding of that. Life happens and it was unfair to you. I do not feel like going through all the details, but in your case it is not bad because you made effort to have serious relationship guys will respect your effort if marriage is your goal.

[VyacheslavSokolov]

Just do not make it a habit

[ohsheeT]

Well, just make sure you think before you do and make sure you're protected and make sure he's protected.
Until you both know what you want

[Nikki1989]

It can never be bad if that is what you are after. Some people will put it down, but they are either very judgmental or simply jealous because they are not getting any. Funny how that works.

[Summeroflove]

That or they’re doing it a lot and feel ashamed. So they judge others for doing the same thing they are

[Summeroflove]

Especially married people who cheat

[Shiprex]

It's not bad but is it worth it?

You seem to want something serious and maybe ought to look into finding someone who is on the same page and also wants a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Having a hookup at 27 isn't inherently bad. It's a personal choice. Prioritize your safety, emotional well-being, and make decisions that align with your values. Be mindful of your expectations for relationships, and seek support if needed.

[NathanDavis]

whenever done, and if done... be safe, always

[tzdc21]

I'd say it's bad to have a hookup period. Doesn't matter the age.

[bowenw]

Have fun with whoever you want so you don’t regret not doing it later.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's up to you can you handle hooking up and not feeling guilty about it later

[slatyb]

Did you enjoy it? Then it wasn't bad.

[LiamS95]

All hookups are bad at any age

[Sugar100]

Why bad?

[LiamS95]

They're not bad ifbyou only want someone using you for what they want and then tossing you aside but that also would mean you have absolutely no self respect.

[Sugar100]

It’s taking many years for me to get a boyfriend and yes I know that I’m not expecting a relationship out of him, I’m still searching for a boyfriend , we all know I never get a boyfriend in one day, I spend years looking for a boyfriend and still searching, most likely this year will be over and I’ll still be single looking for a boyfriend it’s extrémenly difficult

[DrPepper12]

No. Just do as you please!

[Anonymous]

At some point you need to grow up

[In_Trance]

For you it's definitely a bad thing

[wkhan_87]

I don't support hook ups so..

[Wise4myage]

No not at all.