If a woman has one child, is it easy for a guy to accept her and date her?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn’t say easy , but it’s definitely possible , it just depends on whether he accepts her child or not and doesn’t mind that she has a kid from someone else. I know Most single guys’ without kids’ don’t like dating a girl that has a kid or kids’ already , because they don’t want the responsibility of taking care of someone els’s kid or be with a girl that was knocked up by another guy. Most guys’are turned off by that. Sadly single mom’s have it harder then single Dad’s because females’ don’t really mind if a guy has kids’ already , some do , but not as much. I am a single Dad and I was meeting single girls’ with no kids’ and most of them were fine that I had kids’ already. My advice to you , is to not introduce your child to any guy until you know for a fact that he is in it for the long haul and not the short haul , be honest about having a kid but don’t introduce your kid to him for awhile. Single parents’ don’t realize the effect it can do to their child , if the person they are dating decides they no longer want to be in that relationship. Not only are you hurt, your child is as well. Why I never introduced my kids’ to a girl that I was just dating

natured · Accepted Answer

If he also has a child then YES, because people in general that have no Kids will not understand what it takes to be a parent, and it will always clash, Because a parent's priority is their CHILD rightfully so... and a lot of people that don't have kids don't understand it...
So, If you're a single mom date single dads, I think the understanding is better and deeper.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy. Some guys are ok with a woman who has a kid, some aren't.

Avicenna · Answer

No, it's hard for a single parent to date and very hard to get into a stable, long-term relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Whether or not it's "easy" for a guy to accept a woman with a child varies greatly. It depends on the individual guy's priorities, life experiences, and readiness to take on the responsibilities that come with dating a parent. Some men are open to it and even find it appealing, while others may feel it's too much of a commitment. Factors like the child's age, the relationship with the child's other parent, and the woman's own circumstances all play a role. Ultimately, it's a matter of individual compatibility and willingness to embrace a blended family dynamic.

Anonymous · Answer

My ex has a kid, its not something I will just do however. She was highly compatible with me and basically my dream girl. So at that point the kid doesn't matter I was willing to be a father. But if there's other girls like the girl who has a kid who are also similarly appealing she'd loose by default to them. there's no point in settling for someone who already has a child if you could get a similar girl without one so you can take things at your own pace and decide when and if to have kids together.

So will I date her? Sure. To find out what she's like and how well we match. Its a downside i'm ok with but its still a pretty impactful downside. So the chances of me deciding she's not the one for me are increased.

unknowngurll1212 · Answer

It really depnds on the guy and how he views relationships. Some men are open minded and see beyond that, focusing on the woman and her personlity, while others may hesitate because of respnsibilities that come with it. In the end, the right person will accept and respect her for who she is, not just her circumstnces...

Zack-Bann · Answer

One being easier than 2?
I suppose to an extent yeah

But 0 is still by far the easiest and many men aren’t ready to jump into a kid’s life and fill the role of a fatherly figure

Those who are ready for that generally don’t mind the number of kids

Hghhhhhhhhhh · Answer

Ideally having a child wouldn’t affect your dating prospects, but assuming you are looking for a long term commitment, you will be limited to guys who are willing and qualified to be parents. At the end of the day it’s really quality versus quantity. Maybe look into groups or activities for other single parents, as some of the best men for you may already be dads

jshm2 · Answer

Doesn't matter if it's one child or five, that is an extra expense and you need to either have child support for the kid, or some arrangement to mitigate its cost.

Most single moms, end up as side pieces rather than dates as they don't care about relationships, or the kids.

Miristheiss · Answer

When I was a single guy I would have never dated a woman who already had been impregnated by some other dude and had his kid.

My standard was only getting with another single woman who had never been married before and had zero kids.

supercutebutt · Answer

If the woman's child shows signs of becoming hot one day, then yes, her lover will appreciate having a partner who comes with a future replacement.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

it depends on her personality, not how many kids she has...

Sevenpointfive · Answer

get that fuckin baby out my face out my face, i said, get that fuckin baby out my face out my face. take your baby and your gravy. don't be creepin round my place!

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I would say only if the baby's father is either gone for good, or is really cool, and the mother has a good co parenting relationship with him.. Also, if the child is young enough to be raised by another, but old enough to be aware..

Nikki1989 · Answer

It depends on his emotional and maturity levels. You might be surprised how many men still have the mentality level of a teenager, even when in their 30s or 40s.

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

It depends on the guy. I’ve seen endless posts about how men don’t date single mothers, but there’s still ones out there who do. The tricky part is finding the right guy to bring around your kid (s).

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

A single mom isn't the first choice for most guys so lower your expectations of what kind of guy you'll attract

exitseven · Answer

It depends on how old the kid is. A toddler takes up too much time and attention. I would not be interested in raising somebody else;s kid. If the kid was older it would be okay.

glennos89 · Answer

It's a big risk from a guys perspective. I would consider dating females with a child but I prefer one without a child because bonding with a child you can lose at any minute is very heart breaking

andreasderjuengere · Answer

If the kid is a ''nice'' kid, I'd have no issues.  There are just a few practical details that may make ''organizing'' the relationship a little challenging.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Yes. But if you love her you have to accept that she has children. Maybe more than 3 is a handful depending on her age and the kids' ages. If it's over that I'm probably not going to date them, if it's like octomom I'm gone.

LiamJHayden · Answer

As with anything, it depends upon the specifics. For example, a self-sufficient widow with three well-behaved kids is better than a lady with one child and a crazy ex who is a PDS member lurking.

RingOfFire · Answer

Not every guy would like that. But they're definitely will be guys who are fine with it. You only need one guy and they are definitely out there.

PrincessC16 · Answer

One child is a lot more easier than two or three I would think... I could be wrong.

molonski2 · Answer

Its NEVER even remotely easy , especially when the child is young.

Shiprex · Answer

It's not a deal breaker especially for men who may be older or have a family already and can therefore see less issue with a child in tow.

slatyb · Answer

some will, some won't. Single childless men tend to prefer childless women.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Depends on circumstances. Not an automatic no, but needs to be talked about

Anonymous · Answer

It's easy to accept that doesn't make it a small commitment. So no self respecting guy is going accept this lightly. Expect that any decent guy that considers a woman with a child is going to vet her thoroughly.

blackeagle007 · Answer

Wow I dunno. I certainly don’t want to have authority over children that aren’t mine. Having kids won’t be in the future with me. Hence why I’m seeking a like minded woman

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, single moms are an immidiate nope.  Literally in the top ten for red flags.

Staximus · Answer

That depends. Who a woman chooses to have kids with shows what kind of life choices she makes.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Yes because usually her child isn’t any part of the dates until many months. So it’s like dating someone with no kids, right?

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of guys won’t like that but some will. You just have to find the right guy.

Anonymous · Answer

No, men do not think positively about a woman even if she has one child.

nicfire171 · Answer

Depends on the guy. Personally I would be okay with that

fish5505_87 · Answer

A child would not stop me from considering her.

Manuelwe · Answer

Yes and no Yes as she has only one. But no if she plans to have no more

lucass120 · Answer

doesn't bother me. but im also a cuck

DrPepper12 · Answer

One is a lot easier than multiple.

Jay-_- · Answer

I wouldn't say easy but also not a deal breaker.

jahaims · Answer

If he is a desperate simp sure

LiamS95 · Answer

I wouldn't have a problem with that.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, if she's attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't trust single mother's

Anonymous · Answer

No, not at all

Anonymous · Answer

Not really.

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