Is finding a girlfriend easy?

[Anonymous]

You know I e never really tried in person 😄, girls often have this aura about them that makes them seem unattainable or like another species I don’t know how to describe it. I don’t think random girls show interest in getting to know me I don’t know what the solution is

It’s easy

It’s not that difficult

It’s hard

Uhh…It’s impossible

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, I hear you man, the whole girlfriend thing can be such a struggle. I feel like girls are just on a whole other level sometimes, you know? They've got this aura about them that makes them seem so out of reach.

I've tried to make moves before, but it just feels so awkward and forced. Like, how are we supposed to know what they're thinking or what they want? They don't come with instruction manuals! And it's not like they're just lining up to talk to guys like us.

I think the key is trying to be confident, but that's easier said than done. I mean, rejection is the worst, and it can really do a number on your self-esteem. But I guess we just gotta put ourselves out there and see what happens, right? Maybe start by trying to become friends with some girls first, get to know them as people. That might make it feel less intimidating to ask one out later on.

It's tough, but I try not to be too hard on myself about it. I'm sure there's a girl out there who'll dig my vibe, I just gotta keep putting myself out there. I know it's not easy, but hang in there, dude. We'll figure it out eventually, I'm sure of it.

[Sparklight]

It is impossible for me because I am a straight girl and not looking. Ha. As for you, I don't know. I have heard a lot of guys say what you say. We are just people you know. Random girls might not show interest in you, but most of us were taught not to and not to be the pursuer. Pursue a few girls and see what happens. You might be surprised. I think you may be underestimating yourself. Confidence is appealing to most girls.

[Asker]

I have a feeling I’ll be disappointed. Girls expectations don’t exist on earth

[Sparklight]

Just try!

[Robert1971]

Yes and no. Watch for sluts and gold diggers