Do you think its a good idea to confess?

[Anonymous]

I have asked him before what are we. And he just say, we sometimes act like a couple somtimes act like a friend.

Which from that, i assume he just want me as a friend. But i still can't fully move on.

Since this December will be our last time ever meeting each other as we are graduating and he will return to his home country. Should i just directly told him “I love you” and block him for good. Cuz i know we will never and ever meet again. And at least for once and for last, i can't let it out for good

[Anonymous]

If confessing is one of those things that you just really want to get off your chest, you don’t lose anything by doing it. However I think you have a lot of his answer based off how he’s behaved. Indecision is a decision, and by choosing not to define what your relationship is, in my opinion means he doesn’t want to put a label on it. You say he’s leaving back to his home country, which makes any opportunity to try dating pretty bleak, I mean you won’t even see him again for 5+ months. Maybe he isn’t trying to progress because a relationship would be too hard.

[Asker]

Actually, im willing to migrate. Thats how much im down for him. And we have been in ‘situationship’ for nearly 3 years.. because he once told me, he never dare to confess first to a girl, he would like the girl to make the first move.
Hence i thought he is giving me signal, but then i told him, what if someone confess to him and he didn't like her, he said he would then act stranger with her.
That answer halt my plan as im afraid we become a stranger. Only now that we are coming to an end of our studies, i decided to confront him with that, only to get such answ :’)

[Opinion Owner]

3 years is a long time for him to not know where you guys stand, usually by 3 months they already know. I’m sure you guys were busy with studies but there will always be obstacles in life, you just have to pick who’s worth overcoming those obstacles for. He keeps putting an obstacle in place, and I think you’ve gone along with it for so long because you were afraid of pushing him away. There’s a reason why he keeps making excuses though, and I worry that you confessing would be met with yet another excuse for why you can’t be together.

[Alex-Snow]

I do not think you need to block him in December. Part as good friends. Are you having sex with him currently?

[LiverOfLife]

Always