Do you ever feel like you're dating or like a Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde?

[Simslover92]

One minute he's all flirty and conversational when drunk and the next cold as ice when sober.

I don't get him.

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10 mo

He reminds me of Clark Kent from Smallville when he is on red-k. Red K Clark is fun and flirty and hot but normal Clark is kind of boring, moody and doesn't really let how he truly feels out.

[Finchie40]

Run while you can , Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde personality is something you don’t want to get yourself caught up in , Unfortunately for Me I was caught up in that shit for a long time with my ex , the only reason I tolerated it was because of our kids’ together , but otherwise my ass would of already been gone way earlier. Dr Jeykll Mr Hyde Syndrome is not a happy healthy relationship whatsoever, One minute you are there everything and the next you aren’t important to them anymore , when you walk the other way , they will come chasing you back making it seem like they truly love you and want to be with you and if you accept their apology, things will be good between you both for a little while until they snap again and start treating you like a nobody, Do yourself a favor and keep walking away from him without looking back. You can thank me later

[Simslover92]

I am definitely fed up and ready to move on for good. I just can't take it anymore.

[Finchie40]

Yea , you deserve better than that shit trust me , leaving my ex was that best decision I made for myself , even though I was sad out relationship turned out that way , I realized I deserve better , and i eventually found better , cuz the next girl I ended up hooking up with treated me like Gold , and gave to me the same way I gave to her , I no longer had question mark over my head on weather she liked me or not , Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde syndrome is not for me whatsoever, I wish someone told me back then to run lol , So that’s why I am telling you to run , don’t fall for that nonsense , you deserve way better than that shit , There are guys’ out there that will give to you the same way they want to receive from you without question marks period

[Simslover92]

Thanks. I will move on and keep looking.

[Finchie40]

Good luck and trust me you are making the right decision

[Simslover92]

Thanks!

[exitseven]

I dated a girl who may have been bipolar. Every few weeks she would go off on me. She was a bar tender and worked at night. She would show up at my place after work ans if she was already drunk I could tell she would go crazy. Once she bit me so hard I still have the scar

[Simslover92]

Omg that's crazy. Glad you dodged that bullet.

[exitseven]

She was a, smart kid and could have ve gone to college but all she wanted to do was drink and go to bars

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[Simslover92]

You're welcome!

[Chazmatazz269]

I’m a man who is attracted to women. It’s not a mere coincidence that the word hysteria is derived from the Greek word for uterus, hystera. We’ve been conditioned to accept hysteria as the norm from women. So much so that when i meet a woman who is noticeably more rational than most, i immediately assume she’s hiding something.
Yes, i have trust issues. Ell oh ell!

[ohsheeT]

No never had that but I know people that have and it's not good thing

[silvermoon84]

My last situationship was like this. He was Dr Jekyll when things were good but turned into Mr Hyde the minute a problem came up or I did the slightest little thing that annoyed him. On top of that, I have ADHD and he showed signs of being a huge perfectionist so every time the quirks that come with my disorder came up (forgetfulness, ditziness, etc), there would be a problem. Then he flipped out on me two months ago on my birthday when I was supposed to take a train into the city and I missed it (by a minute), he flipped out and started screaming at me. I don’t want to date someone like him.

[Simslover92]

Glad you're not in that anymore with him. That didn't sound healthy at all.

[silvermoon84]

No it wasn’t, and I was so crazy about him that I didn’t see it. Never again, I’m 41 and I’m too old
for situationships.

[Simslover92]

I can understand that. I was so crazy over a guy I was in a situationship with back in college that I didn't see the red flags. He pushed me one time hard. Should have ran then but I was so infatuated that I didn't see he had major anger issues.

[AaronKrieger]

My theory, he does not feel comfortable enough to be himself (confident) with others unless drunk. I do think everyone can resonate with that to a degree, but you should be able to be yourself with partner while sober.

I would talk to him about it if you have not already.

[Simslover92]

I have already discussed it with him several times and he chops it up to him being an idiot and not really his true self when I know deep down it is.

[AaronKrieger]

So, something has to change. What will you do?

[Simslover92]

Not answer the phone on the nights I know he has been out drinking. Which is usually just Fridays and sometimes Saturdays.

[jazzy34]

Please get away from someone like that. That's a walking red flag. Granted, no one is perfect, but there are certain behaviors that you should NOT tolerate under ANY circumstances.

[Simslover92]

That's true. You're so right.

[Babygirl_S]

Some boys feel exactly like that. Sometimes you feel so much love that you just want to hug him tight and the other days he feels so disgusting that you lose all respect for him. He goes from king to a clown real quick. He ruins a good ice cream by adding lots of curry to it!

[Ms_Facesitter]

No... kind of? He's mostly the same, but sometimes he becomes this "super" self. He's the same guy, but he thrives and is killing it at whatever he's doing.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you're describing his personal reactions to alcohol not the man himself.

[Simslover92]

I feel like he is more himself when he loses his inhibitions than when he doesn't. You know the saying... drunk men tell no lies. He's lying to himself when he's sober.

[Simslover92]

But I'm done. I can't do it anymore. He's hurting me when he tells me all the things I want to hear when he drinks but nothing when he's sober.

[Opinion Owner]

That's true of some people but not everybody. I drink and I just fall asleep. I'm far more honest when I'm sober.

If he's hurting you though that's completely different. You just wanna be happy at the end of the day.

[NoDecision]

People lose their inhibitions when imbibing.

[Bricealan]

@Simslover92 Doesn't sound very healthy to me, Sweet Pea

[SamWinchester058]

Have you thought about talking to Clark about your confusion?

[Simslover92]

I have many times. He keeps doing it but I'm done at this point. I just won't pick up when he calls me on a Friday or Saturday night.

[SamWinchester058]

As in a booty call?

[Simslover92]

I guess you could call it that

[SamWinchester058]

Got it

[Kingofkings1992]

In my experience, it’s women who are more likely to be like what you just described.

[sage2021]

Not dating but I have a friend like that 😞

[Nikki1989]

Nah, my husband is rock solid.

[Dongie]

Lately I'm finding Mr. Hyde a lot. In myself.

[Iron_Man]

m.youtube.com/watch

[Dongie]

I've never heard that. It's strange. I like that song about the land down under. I think they did it.

[Iron_Man]

Yes Its Men At Work I have seen them in concert

[Dongie]

Really? They were big in the late 80s I think.

[Iron_Man]

And they came back and tour later on these bands don’t ever quit

[Dongie]

Yeah, I've noticed. The Rolling Stones have been touring since WWI. MICK Jagger is nearly 200 years old.

[Iron_Man]

Wow lol 😂

[MannMitAntworten]

Booze does that…: so does sobriety.

[Chazmatazz269]

Not meaningful sobriety. Only dry drunks act like drunks when they’re sober.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, because I never had a date.

[eagle1951]

all my life

[qwerty2469]

Nope.