Are you an over-thinker? Or have dated one?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

I 100% agree with the meme. I am would not say I am a over thinker, but I am not an under thinker either. Over thinkers can get inside their own heads sometimes and connect some dots that are just not there, and even when there are signs some of those dots might not line up in the way they think they do.

But in general I agree with you, when something doesn't line up in your head then its best that you as the (thinker) and the other person have honest dialog about it. But if they are holding back something or not being completely transparent with you... well you don't have to over think it, just don't underthink it either. If its not right to you then move on. Trust your instincts, because over thinking something does not make it logical or rational. So trust your instincts, and be as rational and logical as you can me.

The main point is not to be driven by your emotions without some type of logic check.

bigpauly · Accepted Answer

I saw this question a few times and contemplated answering. I suppose I am one lmao

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

The problem with holes is you have to consider if they are massive ones or pin pricks. An umbrella still keeps you dry with a tiny hole. The problem with overthrowing is the tendency to over emphasise an insignificant hole and come to a nonsensical conclusion.

_deeznuts · Accepted Answer

no lol i just ignore the holes

Smoothing · Answer

I am definitely a thinker, but I would never describe myself as an over thinker. Ia definitely an intellect ad well.
Very few people can succeed in lying to me. It is just the way my brain functions. My Dad loved that quality about me and it turns out the whole of my family love that about me.

I am just the way I am bit I think describing me as an over thinker is an insult.

U am just who I am. Mt dad lived me and even more because he thought I was smart and so did my mum and so did my uncle's and aunts to the point where the whole of my clan cherish me.

You could never fuck with me in the presence of any of clan members. They will do you in.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Nope, just a thinker. I disagree with the meme though. You don’t need to lie to an over-thinker. Those people will convince themselves you’re lying or cheating even when you’re not. Over-thinking isn’t an admirable and useful quality. It’s nothing short of psychotic. Being able to detect dishonesty is an admirable and useful quality.

MCheetah · Answer

Yeah, I am an over-thinker. Besides my height, that's often what women don't like about me. They prefer someone more "simple minded" who doesn't think much or ask questions. I can't tell you how many times in a day I got to switch my brain from "galactic mode" to "human mode."

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes I am , mainly in relationships, and I hate it to be honest because I use to never be this way , I blame the whores that cheated on me , so my trust for girl’s pretty much went out the window and now I have walls up to protect me from getting my heart shit on again

Mcelroi · Answer

Sure you can solve any problem, but every time you open your mouth, you’re gonna dwell on what you said. Most of the time you’ll just be embarrassed, wondering what others thought of that last poorly told joke. But the rest of the time you’ll be haunted, constantly replaying what you said to that important person, eventually concluding they must be the crazy ones for even associating with you. And then you get distracted because oops! You said something to someone again, time to overthink.

It sucks, I overthink almost every interaction to several levels deep. Internet reading definitely helps.

tony_love_girls · Answer

I do. Best way to overcome this situations busy in Physical activites like walking, exercise, running or speak with people.

Another way is do core exercise it will be lose youe energy then you will get good sleep. there is enough fucking thinks. sleep well.

Idkiiii · Answer

I attempt not to over think relationships/crushes and attempt to act like they are just another person I'm attempting to get to know.

Sometimes people click, other times they don't.

Overthinking will only cause you to get too attached, too obsessed and obstructed in daily life.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

I am an over thinker, but i got in that state couse of the "crap/shit" that i put up with, so yeah now i have another set in my mind... BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY!

Fuentes · Answer

Hmm I over think but it's just me using my full brain I also have photographic and a sharp memory so if you told me something two years ago and you then repeat the story with something different I'll know. It's a blessing and a curse because when i talk to most people I know when they're lying & that makes me dislike people.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Over-thinker as I look for inconsistencies and will actually log and track the stories to see if someone is lying to me.

JSmuve · Answer

I'm the type of person who'll walk back to his car or apartment after 5 minutes away just to quadruple check that it is in fact locked.

awkwardddgirl · Answer

I am an overthinker and I have recently started dating. This is my first relationship and I am already overthinking about how I might mess it up with him and how he will get bored with me and find another girl.

Bmories99 · Answer

I am an over-thinker. I com r up with lists of options and calculate those risks. I also find myself logically thinking through statements or arguments. In some cases its avoid thing and in some itsa really hard thing to get over.

dustybiker · Answer

I call it referencing.. and cross referencing. All in the name of self-education. Too much info can be a bad thing though.

DDBella2011 · Answer

I definitely am an overthinker and I hate it!!! It's really hard to control when you're invested in people and you love them.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

It's basically all girls in universe you are not special lol 🤣

Freyke · Answer

Fresh in the relationship I am. I barely know her. I give her the benefit of the doubt. Only with time will I be able to really be able to tell if something is fishy or not. No matter how much you try, you have a pattern.

msc545 · Answer

In my profession, I have to think carefully about everything people say and do, and don't say and do. For me, it is second nature to do this.

Alex8736 · Answer

I am definitely an over thinker where if I get called into work I always ask who I'll be working with or if someone wants to hang out I won't agree unless there is a plan in place and I'll also have a plan B in case they cancel at the last minute

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Overthinkers create problems that don't exist.

Gamer24 · Answer

I super over think things and often dig a hole trying to figure things out. It's annoying from what I e heard.

bubblegunnn · Answer

Uh, ma'am.. thats me 🙋‍♀️ Could also relate to an trust issues person

pizzalovershouse · Answer

I'm not an yes I dated a over thinker took her an hour to decide what she would have my dinner was already there an I was eating by time she ordered

Spotifyplaylist · Answer

Definitely a over thinker and when I'm dating someone it just makes it worse. 😂😂

Con29 · Answer

I am big time I worry a lot about people judging me

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I've never dated anyone, before, but I am an overthinker.

NathanDavis · Answer

I do hmmmm a lot and you'll hear me and see me doing it too, lmao

Marshymallow · Answer

No, I don’t have time to overthink. I mostly don’t GAF but yh I know some overthinkers

Still-alive · Answer

I definitely used to be buuut i feel I've gotten much better at it. now i'm just a plain old regular thinker.

spartan55 · Answer

Problem is, what makes sense to women doesn't always make sense to men.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I'm very analytical and I overanalyze most things.

JenniferBiArizona · Answer

I over think a lot, but it also makes me good at my job, so I can see multiple outcomes

Clyde_123 · Answer

I am that person. Like I would overthink everything.

MrPickles13 · Answer

There is no doubt what si ever that I am an overthiker. Sadly it's more of a hindrance then a benefit. About 80% hinderwncs at least.

hafinjun · Answer

Okay, okay you got me I am sorry, it won't happen again😁

Annoymous15 · Answer

Currently dating an overthinker and trust me it sucks ☺️

altaboy · Answer

I'll have to think about it before I answer this question.

dolemite89 · Answer

definitely dated a couple over thinkers and it’s just impossible for them to really relax

Jouth · Answer

I'm an underthinker I'm just dumb

OnTheLevel · Answer

I don't know that I'm an over thinker, but I'm a skeptic by nature.

Joinlovebkb · Answer

Stopped that.. ain't much to take serious except God

Zolly99999 · Answer

Unfortunately I do this for some things. Especially my car

melanieeeB · Answer

I do think a lot and my brain is restless but I'm not an overthinker

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

I AM THAT PERSON!!!🙂

TallAnon · Answer

Correct, gaslight them instead. "What? That makes no sense, are you over thinking again? Gosh, such a bad habit of yours, you really need to work on that"

FreedMan · Answer

Welcome to being a parent.

Jltakk · Answer

Yep, thats how my brain is wired unfortunately

RavVid · Answer

Can be was an over thinker.

Idkwtfimdoing96 · Answer

I'm definitely an over thinker lol

JaxiCats · Answer

I do overthink

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

I’m always the over thinker. Always.

Straight2thepoint · Answer

I'm still thinking about your question.

clampfan101 · Answer

I’m a perfectionist, so probably. lol

DiegoO · Answer

I am into creative writing. I guess I am.

Staximus · Answer

I overthink almost everything

Anthony20108 · Answer

over thinker for sure lol

Bigjake1019 · Answer

I over think sometimes

BrickBiggems · Answer

Yes I am. It sucks.

Labelleame · Answer

I am one.

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap

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