Would a guy be comfortable being a girl first time?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A good man would be okay with it. He would also understand it is your first time. At no point would a good man pressure you into doing anything you are uncomfortable with or emotionally blackmail you into giving your virginity up for him or doing it how he likes it. He would know your first time is going to be painful. and would take things as slowly as you needed.

Now I'm going to tell you something personal about myself and I'm going to stay anonymous. I made the mistake of losing my virginity to a not very good person, to keep things rated G. I told him I wasn't ready to lose my virginity and he still kept pushing for it. We worked together, so we carpooled a lot and on our way home, he would drive us into a parking lot of a hospital. It started out as making out, but he kept trying to do other things and kept trying to get me to do other things. I kept telling him no, and eventually, he would stop. But he was clearly irritated at me. But he kept persisting every day. Eventually it came to the point where he told me if I didn't do it, he would break up with me. Because we worked together, I didn't want to make a big spectacle of us only dating for a week. Also, a lot of people were angry when we started dating and people created nasty rumors about me sleeping with several of my coworkers, including my 67 year old boss, to try to get us to break up. These rumors spread throughout our entire workplace and my friend who had resigned a few months prior reported to me that she heard the rumors. Because I wasn't emotionally strong enough to tell him and everyone else to kick rocks, I decided to keep dating him and I eventualy lost my virginity to him. It was very painful, but he didn't care. He only wanted his sexual gratification. We were only together for 4 months. And he ended up cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend.

Moral of the story, proceed with caution. Don't care too much about how the guy feels. Care about how you feel. Because a good guy would take things slow and be gentle with you. Don't make the same mistake that I did, because if I could take that decision back, I'd do so in a heartbeat.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well you should really look at it another way. For get about the guy

I feel bad for girls in this Position.
Because you have to make the right choices with the guy.

There are 2 types if guys.

First guy is a guy who only wants what he wants. He's a way bam good bye mam
And makes it all about himself

Second guy understands it's your first time he really likes you he's going to take it slow he's going to touch and move in slow slow motion. To become one with you he's going to be looking deep in to your ete reading the color of your cheeks listening to the way you breath moan the way you move. And he's going to adjust what he's doing in that moment to make it better. For you. Because he wants to make it all about you he wants to become one with you and take you to the moon mars then Saturn then he will bring you home for the hottest intense ride you have ever had. In that moment he doesn't care if you splash down in the ocean. Or burn up In the atmosphere. All he knows is that you are one with him and the moment it's over your both going to role off close your eyes and go into an Out of body experience. For 20 to 30 min you will start to wake up because you in a floating Spiritual place. You will feel something touching your arm or back you will fight to open your eyes you will sit up look around to see where your at. And then it will come to you you just had the hottest sex ever and you will fall back on the bed abd say omg lol. Good luck just pick the right guy

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

I’ve done it in the past
The sex itself wasn’t “comfortable” but that didn’t matter

I felt flattered that she chose me to be her first and also the responsibility of getting her through it with the minimal amount of pain possible

Granted she didn’t exactly chose the smallest option either.
I do think we did fine

But then I dated another virgin later and that was a disaster
She said she wanted to do it but when we get to it after hours of foreplay and preparation she would stop and say she’s in pain (even before I get to any painful level)

She wasn’t ready and there’s nothing I can do

So yes I would be comfortable to be a girl’s first but only if she really wants it

HighValue · Answer

A good quality man that is only interested in someone with good morals for an exclusive long term relationship would be happy about that and respect her more for waiting until she found someone she thought would be compatible for a lasting relationship instead of following along with the feminist promiscuity immorality that is so common.

Bricealan · Answer

No, my one virgin was 19 and I was in my 20's, and breaking her cherry was a nasty, painful, process, and not easy to do. She did not say it hurt, but I am sure it did. Thinking back, I wish I had not broken her cherry, and should have just kept fucking her without full penetration, for the entirety of our relationship that lasted about 6 months or more.

No, I would NOT have been in her underpants.

Berethor · Answer

No hymen, no diamond, deflowering a virgin is more of a achievement than being with a ho.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

No i wouldn't like to be a girl... i'm happy the way i am... No change here...

jahaims · Answer

Depends on the guy. We don't have universal personalities just because we share a gender lol. Preferences are individually based

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, as long as he's not an asshole.

Asgard356 · Answer

It would be weird not have a dick or balls

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not.

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