Why Are Indian Guys Terrible At Texting Girls?

[fonduegirl]

they reply fast but their messages are as interesting as boiling water

[Screenwriter]

I've never heard anything about men from India being terrible texters. Maybe Indian culture doesn't encourage typed conversation in men.

However, maybe it's simply the Indian men YOU are engaging with aren't texters, and this has nothing to do with anything but the particular men you're talking to.

I wouldn't drop a blanket on any one group of males unless I'd experienced different outcomes with a host of other ethnic/cultural groups of men: white, black, Hispanic, Asian...

If you can discuss your interactions with all of these groups and find there is a decided difference between Indian men and the latter groups, don't assume this is about ALL Indian men and their inherent lack of texting.

[HollyK21]

I don’t think race has anything to do with it, there’s a lot of men in general who just aren’t interested in texting. Like if I’d relied on texts to carry my current relationship it would’ve never worked because my fiancé is a terrible, terrible texter. He much prefers in person hangouts. I think this comes down to your personal experience as well, and since the men you’ve had the dry-est conversations with just happened to be Indian.

[Grond21]

So many girls are really bad also. I've had several on here who want to become friends and I will type out two sentences and they will give one word answers. It feels like pulling teeth just to have a normal conversation with them.

I can't say I've experienced the Indian men and their texting, but it does sound very, very frustrating.

[fonduegirl]

It is!

[college-student2021]

Well am not Indian so I can’t give a exact answer but if am guessing and using as a example men who had very little interaction with women then my best guess would be they don’t interact much with women producing usual result of terrible texting at women.

[Cormac995]

So let me get this straight. Indian men text like American woman? That's interesting. XD

[fonduegirl]

American women text alright I think

[Cormac995]

I never get more than a sentence and sometimes it's just one-word replies. I have only met a handful of women that ever texted back with any engagement. I'll say something like.

"So how was your day? DId you do anything fun or were you busy with boring stuff?" Her response. "It was ok."

That's 90% of the texts I've had from women go like that or something similar.

[fonduegirl]

That's indeed monotonous

[fonduegirl]

These people should be sent back to 17th century and made to write love letters

[Cormac995]

This is why I don't understand woman. I see them talking about. "I want engagement and a guy who listens and looks after me." Then I try to strike up a conversation and they can't even type two sentences. I don't get it why did you want my number than if this is all you're going to say?

[fonduegirl]

I don't understand them either

[fonduegirl]

If I did I would have a girlfriend

[Cormac995]

How are you a woman that doesn't understand women? That's possible?

[Cormac995]

I mean I definitely understand men as a man.

[fonduegirl]

I don't understand them in romantic sense

[fonduegirl]

I wish a tall girl would sweep me off my feet or something

[Cormac995]

A guy's romantic desires can mostly be boiled down to. "Loves, takes care of me and treats me right." It doesn't get a lot more complicated than that most of the time. Pretty much every dude I've talked to says that's what they're looking for in a partner. Meanwhile in America according to research 70% woman say the most important thing in a relationship is good finances. It's very frustrating.

[fonduegirl]

Depends on what they mean by good finances. A man having job? Sure. A guy being a multi-millionaire ceo? Eh.

[Cormac995]

When American woman say it in most cases they're expecting the guy to make a 6 figure sallay which makes up 14.5% of the entire population of men in America. So 70% of woman want one of the 14.5% of men. Do you see how this math doesn't work?

[Cormac995]

Also in most cases the woman demanding this are unemployed or working retail which makes it funny.

[Still-alive]

what you mean you aren't motivated enough to reply over 'hi' or 'k' texts?

/sarcasm

[fonduegirl]

Hahaha

[talka20]

I find a lot o girls too quite or too boring to text but they be good at heart too in a way... and i think it is just the people one meete bec there are a lot of good texters too out there im sure

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Oh come don't be like this, without boiling water you can't eat spaghetti, and if you can't eat spaghetti then you're missing a great part of Italian culture. That sucks 😐

[fonduegirl]

I do love spaghetti

[fonduegirl]

You got me

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

So, you see, boiling water isn't as boring as it initially sounded.

[fonduegirl]

The trick is to add a smidge of salt and some oil

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Personally I only add salt afterwards because I want to control if the sauce is salty the right way. Same with (olive) oil

[fonduegirl]

I use pasta mix

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Pasta mix? Give me a link, I don't know what it is

[fonduegirl]

www.kothiyavunu.com/.../

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Oh that looks very nice, I fear chillies quantity from this recipe though, but that's just because of different habits :)

[Nikki1989]

It is texting. It is pointless and emotionless at the best of times. You might as well resort to sending smoke signals to each other.

[SotiCoto]

Because where they come from, women are property and marriages are mostly arranged by the family. They have no experience with actually treating women as human beings with their own wants, desires, and the ability to say no.

[NathanDavis]

actually... I find boiling water quite interesting...

and water boiling, even more interesting

[DannyUk2017]

Because "you dond dell him whad do do" 😅😂😂😂 i know you "tried it"

[Kaneki05]

I only know the memes I don't know if they're racist or true or both.

[Agape93]

No idea, I just wish they'd stop and leave us alone.

[WhitneySnow]

Not good at socializing with the opposite gender?

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Probably a language barrier thing. If you speak Telegu find a Telegu speaking man, and so on for any of the languages of India.

[red_knight]

Nope, also depends on interest and engagement

[eagle1951]

not just them from what i here

[fonduegirl]

I've talked to French, British, American guys... They are pretty decent I'd say

[RavVid]

Are they native English speaking Indians?

[nl171]

Try talking to American guys 😂

[fonduegirl]

They're quite good actually

[nl171]

So dm me?

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

Racist dumb dumb!

[beefcakebradybatson]

Try us handsome Bradys !!!

[TadBehaya]

lol ikr!