A few things:
⒠As was mentioned by some (like @the_sinner), significant cultural-differences are at play in this site with mostly U. S.-based users: Since their side's expected courtship is with marriage in mind, it's only for people ready to marry (i. e. adults). Hence, their experience in flirting is generally null or close to it. Especially with strictly-traditionalist parents, the very idea of mixed, co-ed interactions with their sons/daughters not yet ready for marriage is repulsive. (I remember some Indian friends back in my university years: Their parents didn't seem to fully grasp the idea that they're in the U. S. now and that the culture is different. They would rhetorically ask their daughters with a disgusted tone stuff like, "Oh? So, you're still talking to boys in your classes?" as though demanding strictly same-sex professors, instructors, teachers' assistants, classmates, lab-partners, workmates, bosses, etc. only or no participation⦠all the way through university-years until graduation & post-graduation employment would be considered normal, do-able, and legally non-discriminatory in the U. S.)
β’ Apparently, the low Internet-prices in India are giving even the lesser-educated Indians access to the online world. Hence, the rise in less-than-refined responses from their side of the world.
β’ And as stated by @AkshiJanjua, the more-skilled Indian-guys already have a significant-other, so the faithful wouldn't be flirting with random female account-holders online.
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Indian men have developed a bit of reputation of being bad with women. As an Indian man, let me tell you that this reputation has been validated time and again. For starters, most of them don't know shit about flirting. They are TROLL GODS on the Internet but suck at being interactive. Mostly because sex doesn't come too easy in most parts of India, needless to mention the percentage of men is close to 60% in this country. Which is why they tend to excited or separate too soon. To be honest, Indian men in the states or anywhere abroad are more confident and playful only because they adapt to the conditions well. P. S - I am no Guru. Don't send me DMs asking for nudes.
Honestly I had this one Indian guy profess his love for me... 40 minutes after I met him... here on GaG... from 1 question and 10 minutes of messaging.
All I can say is yikes.
Once this Indian guy on here also began asking me for pictures like on the second or third question and I was like "nope! see ya!"
lol great times! 😂😂
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For us relationship start from marriage... Not enough experience with woman...
We are into husband and wife relationship rather than Living together.. that kind thing.
So after she interested first thing in mind just marriage... Not the test drive those things...
So in flirting we are weak... but with our girl only flirting we are enough good and more than that...
For us every site is dating app...
We get married a person who met in language learning app too...
And we are more into monogamous relationship 95%
Here woman will not say Yes, without her parents consultant.
We are into marry the girl to love rather than love the girl to marryAsker Not every Indian guy is bad at communication thing it's just that some are really desperate and that's why they say stupid things.
Lol I don't think I'm that bad 🙈
But yeah in general it would be because we are not so exposed to flirting with women and there's more arranged marriage and love marriage going on here. Guys are mostly shy and not very confident when it comes to communicating with the opposite gender.Really, you think all of us are that bad..
Most of them are..
Not everyone love!..
Not everyone !..Conversations like that dont only happend with indian guys. Hear from one of my friends that that's most often the kind of messages she gets. And that's just a no go. Many guys dont relise
We just have a disconnect of what we want to see vs what you want to see.. We want attention, compliments, pictures. Girls often don't seem very affected by those, especially when they already get a lot of attention and compliments, because in current society we shower women with those at all times.
So, we feel like we don't have much to give, not much to offer.Indian men have a culture that is very direct and in india they are used to hitting on girls in public. they aren't used to doing it online. they are used to cat calling and direct in person approach.
It's the lack of social communication (at least for me) and/but mine doesn't discriminate with genders either.
Asian person, why did your people spread the corona? do you like how it feels when someone incorrectly generalizes your people? Not all indians do that, not even the majority.
Not all of them are bad at flirting.
Most of them are not allowed to talk to girls till they're considered adults that's why they lack the skills of flirting and how to talk to people in social platforms.Or even making friends online 😂 I mean not all of them are like that but in my experiences a lot of them are.
That conversation doesnβt show lack of skill I think. If anything your skills were the one that seem a little cold and unengaging...
There are many good ones but they already have girlfriends 😛
because the female parent role isn't present to teach them
Talking with pretty girls is tough for anyone 🤷ββοΈ
Well the population is a lot and more than half of them aren't getting laid. And a lot of them aren't even friends with girls so it is what it is 😂
Did he ask your Facebook in second or third message? 😅 That's so weird
The hatred of Indian people on here is insane.
From what I heard middle eastern guys are very bad at it too.
Maybe it's just a stereotype lolI guess it's because they don't know how to flirt. They are very shy or sometime rude in flirting. And thee impact of surrounding community as made indian men's dumb ass.
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