Why do Indian guys struggle at talking to women online ?

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

I’ve noticed a trend with Indian men online, they always ask really awkward sexual questions and in a very personal way. It creeps me the fuck out... in real life the Indian guys I went to highschool were nice and kind of nerdy , but they are also accustomed to American norms. Is it just me... and also why on earth does this happen ! It’s not acceptable to ask a stranger if they want to sext randomly off the bat !!!

[Anonymous]

The men here sound like pussies and the women sound like racists.

Dont want guys to ask you sexual questions? Stop answering sexual questions.

If there was half a billion other men in the dating market and women still did absolutely nothing to go out and find a partner, i think most men would find a way to be more aggressive.

If you dont like being approached with a straight forward question about sexting,

I guess you prefer the American way of pretending not to like each other until you randomly get drunk and hook up? I am American but that seems creepier to me.

Anyways, stop putting down men for being the sexual approachers. You can not expect a man to approach you and at the sMe time consider it creepy for him to do so. Makes your other opinions worthless, because following your advice would mean social isolation.

Anyways, you people dont seem very smart so i doubt you'll read anything other than this last line.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

This happens on dating websites too , not just this site. And I answer sex questions on this site to help people out with their problems but there are boundaries when it comes to talking to strangers.

I’m not racist , I’m talking about how people from other countries behave online in contrast to real life Indian guys who live in America who are nice polite and studios. These guys act exra creepy and disregard all social norms. Like black , white , and Hispanic guys have ask me stupid shit like ; if I have a dick size preference , what size are my boobs , and or if I’m a Virgin after a few sentences. They usually have the decency to ask a few questions about common interests and then do a date to either a dinner, bar , coffee shop , Arcade , etc

[krishh0805]

Being an Indian, don't think I support all Indian men.
1) I think not all Indian men do so while chatting online. It might be the case that the guys with whom interacted happened to be that creep type.
2) Not only indian, there are creeps all over the globe.
3) There are good guys too who respect the women modesty. I hope you come across those guys.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Like I said the ones I know from school were nice guys. But online Indian guys usually ask me weirder sexual questions than other races.

[Lilyanony]

I dunno but it's creepy as fuck. I dunno but it makes be think they come from a really repressed environment. I feel like they're either complete pervs or too romantic that makes them seem creepy. Talking all this fantasy romantic love shit doesn't work. And all this sending dick pics and talking about random fetishes isn't cool.
I know for myself when a guy says he's Indian I block them. If they lie its usually fairly easy to find out they're Indian talking to them for a little while. They get blocked as soon as!

[vsbw14]

Haha! Indian dating u ! Comeon i don't think any Indian (online) wants to send dick pics of him unless he is out of his fuckn mind😂

[Lilyanony]

@vsbw14 did I hit a nerve. I can assure you there are many Asian men that are interested in me and when my hairs straightened I've had a few Asian men talk to me in their language mistaking me for an Asian woman. I have dated a Sri Lankan man, a Bengali man, and an Indian guy all bar one born and raised here. They were all very respectful of me. I never slept with them because u respect their religion and would have only taken that step if we were going to marry. I went as far as to introduce my bengalideshi boyfriend to my parents who they liked very much but I couldn't live with him being disowned by his family for me. And online it's always Asian men sending their dick pics. and asking really sexual questions or for advice on how to do certain sexual things.

[vsbw14]

How do u even know they r indians (online)! in my place (where i have brainless people) no one loves black people & even make fun of them. Those who have brain can date a black/white & those who have brain dont send dick pics to u

[Lilyanony]

@vsbw14

[Lilyanony]

Well I find you to be completely ignorant. The type of people that send their dick pics unsolicited don't care who they send them to so long as they get a response. It's modern day flashing which is a mental illness effecting predominantly men between the ages of 18-35 look it up. Hence why I said repressed background. but whatever really. Good luck to you.

[vsbw14]

Good luck & stop blocking if someone says he is indian

[theflash675]

Its idiotically stupid to block someone for just being indian. I understand there are a lot of bad apples out there but seriously...

[vsbw14]

Exactly

[Lilyanony]

@theflash675 why because you're both Indian?
Look it's as simple as this if I see your profile and your responses aren't my thing how would you know about me?
I want to use the net and have a nice time. Not guessing? or feeling harassed.

[theflash675]

Im not indian you fool.

[theflash675]

And i have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. This is the first time i have ever seen you on this site.

[11110000bbbb]

Some just don't know how to respect women.
Some do, but there are a few that say extremely bad things.
There are some really nice Indian Men but they tend to come off a bit more sexual that others.

[iamdesperate]

I agree. Perhaps it is due to cultural, religious and societal restrictions on open talk about sex and sexuality which is responsible for such a behavior.

[iamdesperate]

Thanks for MHG.

[CasaNorba]

i kinda agree, i remember a few years back i came across an indian dude who after friending me kept asking me if i can send him some pics of my "female friends." pretty creepy, but i also came across a few that sounded like pretty cool people and it kinda aggravates me that they all get painted with the same brush. and when its not this is do to their appearance, i don't know why but a lot people say they look "disgusting."

[AbdKilani]

hahaha
It is funny and sad at the same time , the issue is in the Indian society , they have no control over men when it comes to sexuality , many times i have heard on the news of awful sad mass rape in India , they have nothing to stop them in real life, how about over the internet.
It started with a laugh , but a sour one , of how uncivilized men could be :(

[machismo69]

I agree with that. I've had other instances wherein some of my friends abroad have told similar stuffs as you did. Some Indian men, because of the Westerner's liberal outlook towards life, consider that they are willing to go to bed with other men, which to me is stupid and sick. I'm an Indian and I can understand strongly what you mean.

[findingdreamland-1]

I think they suppress their feelings because of the culture. But online they do not need to.

[EmmaMary]

OMG, so at last I'm not alone with these very same thoughts and conclusions.

[OfDeath]

Indian society is still very patriarchal. They have grown up in this world have the wrong ideas about women.

[vsbw14]

Not all of us are born with real charm like some of us do

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Do you think there is a difference between Americanized indians and the ones who live in their native country

[vsbw14]

Nah! i think its totally different! Americanized indians are not indians just americans! For native indians i think some have brain some dont

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Nopes I think they are both , like I’m Mexican and I have lived here for a while so I am both Mexican and an American. I’m sure they are still proud of their culture but more cognizant of how to interact with others

[vsbw14]

They are proud but we r not! Foreign studies f9 but foreign settle 8s shit

[gowtham12]

Yes I agree with u like Indian Guys some of them creepy bcoz they use fake ids and in real life they are very much cool and caring

[xctmnt]

They were colonized by the British...

[baryaakov555]

Bobs or vagana whichever will it be?

[anytime_anywhere]

We'd rather prefer face to face talk !!!

[Glen68]

Good question

[nick7696]

Don't know