Is it wrong for me to ghost a guy who is taking too long to reply to my texts?

[Anonymous]

this has been happening over past 2 weeks and I've noticed lower effort from him too.

Would it be wrong for me to just stop talking to him?

[ohsheeT]

I can see it now. After marriage

I told you to get your a**In here and take out the garbage now lol

Pick up your.
Damn clothes off the floor now

I told you 2 days ago at 9 o'clock Wednesday night you were going to sex me up... get your ass in here and let's do it. NOW!!!

NO if your not happy walk away this is your life you have boundaries. You have rules and you can't reach you. The way that you want to be treated, then you should have the option to do whatever you want. It's that simple

Sorry , I had to tease you there for a minute lol

[SotiCoto]

Have you considered maybe TELLING HIM that he is taking too long and that you're calling it off, and then leaving?

... As opposed to... y'know... basically gaslighting him.
Seriously... what the fuck is wrong with kids these days? If you've got a problem then surely communicating it is the first thing you should try.

[DishLady]

So he is essentially ghosting you but then keeping you on the hook... and you want to return the favor. YOu do you. It seems childish to me, though.

[jazzy34]

Absolutely not. I went through three months of this. Cut ties.

[Rides_Big_Guys]

Not wrong at all. Considering you hardly know each other. It’s none of his business either.

[zagor]

Some people have more important things to do than hang on every text.

[Anonymous]

If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around to hear it does it still make a sound?

[WhitneySnow]

No but if he asks you should tell him why

[Asker]

im thinking about just not replying to his messages so he can get the "hint"

[WhitneySnow]

Sure. But if he straight up asks you why you stopped replying you should tell him.

[Asker]

im just sick and tired of these guys wallowing in pointless relationships with women just so they can get some free sex.

The same happened to me a few weeks ago with another guy, he pretended to be as attached to me as I am to him (we were cuddle buddies, i was getting attached). Early on in the month when we first met, we texted a lot. He never replied late. He put in effort into his texts. He replied in sentences. Fast foward a month later, he began having all sorts of type errors in his texts, putting in bare minimum effort, canceling plans due to the lamest reasons, being late.

I decided to just ask for him to recommend me another guy. I told him that I always wanted to get with a cop and I like the fact that he knows many cops. Maybe he can set me up on a date with a cop.

This enraged him and he stood me up upon our next meeting.

[WhitneySnow]

Does cuddle buddies mean you gave him a handjob?

[Asker]

no. we were about to have sex. but we haven't

the thing about me is I never tell a guy that he is underperforming. I observe men secretly to see what they are fulfilling and what they aren't. If they aren't stepping up to the plate, i get rid of them. No chance for them to improve

[WhitneySnow]

That’s fair. But I still think you should tell him why if he asks.

[In_Trance]

... why wouldn't you call him?

[Noodle_fan]

Nope